u/Individual-Poet-4779

I’m 21F needing to fix my sleep schedule and make it more consistent, submit assignments on time (biggest issue), become more financially secure and improve my credit score, work out more consistently and build muscle, and stop wasting time with “productive procrastination” - I always cook healthy meals and keep my place spotless, but at the expense of my schoolwork and sleep. Basically just get my shit together and create some form of routine in my life.

I am ESTP (possibly ENTP? Unsure), enneagram 8, and in my fourth year of college (I do online school, so fourth year-equivalent). Most of my hobbies are creative in nature- I am a musician (I play a few instruments and have started producing) and I figure skate.

I am very ambitious and competitive, so I will likely try to out-work you (regardless of if I can lol) so I am looking for someone with the same qualities, who also values achievement and becoming the best version of themselves. I am looking for someone who is not afraid of confrontation and who will call me out when I’m slacking or when I could have done better that day. I will also do the same for you. No sugar coating things, no passive aggressiveness. It would be nice to work with someone who has high levels of openness to experience/intellect. Immediate rewards help me, so we can put money on it too (but not a requirement). Can be M or F, ideally between the ages of 20-24, but flexible.

Most importantly you need to be striving for exceptionally high achievement and be willing to tell me the harsh truth when needed. Ideally you need to be competitive. And you cannot be a trump supporter (idc if you’re a republican, just if you support trump).

Can be done over text, FaceTime, both, or whatever, I don’t really care about the method or what time of day it is. Ideally not zoom or google meet or anything like that. It would be nice to mix it up every once in a while so I don’t get bored. I do not have social media except for Snapchat though, I deactivated my insta/FB/tiktok accounts about 4-5 months ago because I was spending too much time scrolling. Will probably reactivate once I have more of my shit together.

Im fine with small talk, getting to know each other more personally, or simply just being there for accountability. Im super flexible on the level of personal involvement, as long as the accountability aspect is there.

I am looking for something relatively long term, but if it is clear that we don’t vibe/our productivity styles and goals don’t match (you are okay with being mediocre), I will let you know, and probably find someone else. If it works tho, I’m in.

Shoot me a message if this sounds like you, and if I sound like someone you are looking for! Looking for someone asap.