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so for context I’m the guy in the friend group who puts in extra efforts and goes out of the way for everyone to make them feel special on their bday

For instance for my 1 best friend I made the whole plan to go to his house at 12 am and take his favourite flowers and cake along with other friends to his house on his bday

went to my other twin bsfs house alone at 12 am on their bday when everyone said they r not allowed to go

Flash forward it’s my bday this month
And those twin bsfs especially are coming back 2 days before my bday from their trip saying they want to come at my place

The other friend I mentioned earlier is going out with my other classes friend to a hill station trip on the same day as my bday ( both of us are in the same class )

I honestly felt sad because why would he want to go on the same day as my bday ?!?!? It fucking sucks because I don’t see him giving me priority in this situation ( also mind you guys it’s my 18th bday in few weeks , so I expected my friends to throw me asmall surprise and put in the same efforts for me )

All of my class friends including him were also inviting me but I said NO because why Tf would I go out on my bday week with class people I don’t give a shit about

So I’m giving a party to all of my close friends and I won’t be inviting this friend to a later date just so because can’t make it on my bday on the actual date

Even tho he’s a close bsf I think he could have atleast adjusted the dates and given me priority over his other fake classmates

Shd I just completely break the friendship or just distance myself away from him ? need advice on this

so for context I’m the guy in the friend group who puts in extra efforts and goes out of the way for everyone to make them feel special on their bday

For instance for my 1 best friend I made the whole plan to go to his house at 12 am and take his favourite flowers and cake along with other friends to his house on his bday

went to my other twin bsfs house alone at 12 am on their bday when everyone said they r not allowed to go

Flash forward it’s my bday this month
And those twin bsfs especially are coming back 2 days before my bday from their trip saying they want to come at my place

The other friend I mentioned earlier is going out with my other classes friend to Lonavla on the same day as my bday ( both of us are in the same class )

I honestly felt sad because why would he want to go on the same day as my bday ?!?!? It fucking sucks because I don’t see him giving me priority in this situation ( also mind you guys it’s my 18th bday in few weeks , so I expected my friends to throw me asmall surprise and put in the same efforts for me )

All of my class friends including him were also inviting me but I said NO because why Tf would I go out on my bday week with class people I don’t give a shit about

So I’m giving a party to all of my close friends and I won’t be inviting this friend to a later date just so because can’t make it on my bday on the actual date

Even tho he’s a close bsf I think he could have atleast adjusted the dates and given me priority over his other fake classmates

Am I the kameena ?

SOO after a fellow Redditor who had extra tickets gave me the tickets me and my friend today went to the hybe popup park

First of all the event started at 4
So I went in to take the wrist band by 3:45 and there was already a big ass line
I saw previously that Passports Were being given to every attendee so when I showed the guy my ticket I asked for the passport and he just said no saying they weren’t giving it to boys !!!!!

Like seriously , I pleaded to the guy saying the passport thingy was important for me but he said that The management had counted the passports and won’t be giving it to the boys , I was honestly pissed off and in the end just let it go

Once I came inside I saw two boys around my age carrying their passports ( had an internal breakdown watching that )
Then we’re the stalls inside the event
Queue for the ramen 45 minutes ( ramen was just two bites and it was shite watery tasting )
Queue for the ramen spin wheel 1 hour
At this point I was already dizzy from all the massive heatwave ( it was a open fucking ground )

Then came the most fucking annoying thing
I was fricking waiting in the line for almost 2 and a half hours for the KIA stall
And when we’re about to go in there was a stampede like situation cuz people were making new lines
And a volunteer came up to us started screaming at us when we were the actual ones who were standing in the correct queue
It was a whole damn mess and then They started saying that they have ran out of merch so we just gave up and started to look out for other stalls after Wasting 3 hours for nothing

Then we went for the photo booth it was nice
And the H And M photo stall it was good line took 25 minutes each approx

DJ and performances by outstation and other artist were damn good and I missed out on the outstation groups performance because we were standing in the Kia stalls line for motherfukcing 3 hours

ALSO NO HYBE MERCHS WERE AVAILABLE EXCEPT ARIRANG BTS ALBUM

I was a bit disappointed at that too

Overall a 4/10 experience

I HAVE GREY SF90 with me

Plss yall 😭😭😭

I just watched like 5 episodes of love story

I couldn’t get one thing clear

Was John two timing with Carolyn and Hannah

And was Carolyn two timing between John and Michael Bergin

I’m way too confused