i’m worried my boyfriend [18M] has lost interest in me [18F]
my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now, and have been living together for a year.
he never seems to put in effort anymore. no surprises, no planning dates, no flowers, no compliments etc.
it’s been like this for months now and i’m at a breaking point where i just don’t know what to do. i don’t want to mention stuff to him coz i know it’ll just cause an argument. i don’t know how to mention it in a non accusing way that won’t hurt his feelings.
when we first started dating he would buy me gifts and take me out on surprise dates all the time.
on multiple occasions i’ve asked him if he wanted to go out and do something together and he will decline, or he will groan n say whatever and is just noticeably not enjoying himself.
just a lil rant , if anyone has any suggestions on what i should do or how to bring up a conversation about this - im all ears. 🙏