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I am 18f and my mum is 40f. I have a 7 year old sister who lives in this house. For context, My mum and her ex broke up in March because he showed his friends pictures of my mum unconscious after he graped her. Keep in mind he’s also a paranoid schizophrenic. My mum found out because a mum at my sisters school was there when my mums ex showed the pictures and informed her. My mum was distraught. Although unconscious, she remembers the situation from before and after. Police was involved and a report was made. They went no contact shortly after he wouldn’t stop harassing us. Everything was fine for a bit. Me and mum have always had a rocky relationship because she picks men over me. I didn’t live at home for about 1-2 years because of this. I came home because I couldn’t stay where I was living any longer. Now back to the present. I went to work 2 weeks ago and got a message saying (we will call him mark) was coming over. I was livid. I was asking why to which she said she’s lonely. I told her my boundaries are that he is not there when me or my little sister are home. My sister was at her dad’s this weekend, She replied that this is her home and she will do what she wants. After a lot of talking she said he will be gone by the time I’m home. When I got home he was not gone and didn’t leave til 2am. I cried a lot as I have ptsd due to assaults and the idea of being in the same house as a man like him made me feel sick and physically couldn’t sleep. She was salty with me days after but we were fine not long after and I thought he wouldn’t come again but I was wrong. The other day I came home from work to him being here. For starters which pisses me off is my sister was home sleeping in bed. 5 minutes after arriving home a car came to my house which I assume was a drop since I know mark does but I suspect my mum do cr*ck. I was so tired since I got home at midnight. We had a massive argument over message, mostly me pleading with her to tell him to go because I’m tired and I needed sleep. She ended up saying we needed to talk the next day. While I was at a friends house I got a message saying I need to leave by June first. I believe I’m not overreacting since I think this is pretty reasonable but she is not the kind of person to see others point of views or communicate because she gets defensive and lives in her own delusional fantasy world. AIO?

Im (18f). My (40f) mum has had a past of dr*g use. I personally believe she never really left her past. Shes a very unpredictable person and she used to be such a good mum. She’s declined in so many ways which makes me believe she is on something. Her most recent ex boyfriend smoked cr*ck she admitted that to the police when I was eavesdropping ( yes I know bad, and yes police was involved in their break up.) she is not the kind of person to have a civilised conversation and she gets very defensive and angry. What should I do and how could I figure out if she is or not. I did last year go through her phone (again I know it’s bad) but I had a gut feeling. I did see messages with contacts with no names that said things like “sniff or stone”. I do know what that means. All this together makes me belive she never stopped. Help !

My (40f) mum keeps asking me (18f) for money. She always says she will pay me back but it takes so long for her to do that. I am working a part time job as I like to have enough rest time because if I worked full time I’d get too stressed out and quit, so I do what’s best for me. But my mum is on benefits and still charges me for rent and has the audacity to take money from me. I do have savings but I don’t get a lot of money because I work minimum wage. What should I do?

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Before I start. This is a personal issue I need advice on, please don’t judge I don’t know a lot.
I’m 18/F and my girlfriend is also 18/F. We’ve been dating 2 months but spoke and got to know each other for longer before then. we are also long distance but we have met. The problem I’m having is that I can’t seem to show arousal and I will explain. I can feel turned on both mentally and physically like I can feel it but I can’t get w*t a lot of the time. I do have hypothyroidism which can lower estrogeon and affect me in different ways including sexually. I can’t feel sensation without a toy and I don’t want to hurt her ego when we eventually do things. We have talked about it and she said she doesn’t mind just using the toy but I could tell by the way she looked and was speaking that she was upset that we could possibly never do it the way she wants to. I’m very inexperienced and she is experienced and I’m worried I’m not gonna feel how I should and I don’t feel normal because of this. Does anyone have any advice or questions answering to help?
Thank you !!!