u/salamipope

Best apps for transmasc butches?

im concerned about privacy, i know im kinda over the top about it but im really not keen on being identifiable as queer while an oppressive government looms over all of our heads. But i guess ive already been on t for years, changed my name and my gender marker, and i got top surgery... so even if i am in their database it probably (?) wouldnt be from lex? or smth?

I saw a lot of ppl on this sub recommending HER, but i am transmasc, so i dont want to intrude? even tho i am a lesbian? Interested on ur thoughts xo

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u/salamipope — 1 day ago

Discord needs to give us the option to not suppress voice memo audio. We all sound like garbage.

We can turn off krisp in audio settings, sure, doesnt change that it still does it no matter what in the voice memos.

Problems:

- You. Cannot. Have. An. Expressive. Voice Memo. In Discord. You cant. If you raise your voice in volume OR tone, or are simply singing a note for more than two seconds, it cuts out. You want to get close up to the microphone for comedic effect? Too bad. Deaɗ air. No one will know what you said and you wont know that they wont know unless you listen to your recording and find out at the same time they do.

- Recording through a third party app is NOT a solution. This makes discords voice memo feature entirely obsolete and ridiculous to add in.

- It MUFFLES LAUGHTER! If we say something funny and our friends are laughing in the voice memo it sends back, its DEAƊ AIR! NOTHING! Dude, it sucks!

Easy fix, give us the option to turn off noise suppression.

I mean guys weve been dealing with this for, what, two years? it still sucks. I hardly use memos anymore and they used to be a major source of communication between me and my friends in our server. I dont like to listen to their memos because we all sound like complete ass now. Please, for the love of GOD, give us the option to turn it OFF.

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u/salamipope — 4 days ago
▲ 3 r/skyrim

Who did you kill in the abandoned shack?

I think this is a really interesting question. I know a lot of people kill them all, i did because i knew id love being in the dark brotherhood after playing oblivion and i was stoked. but i stopped to talk to them to see what they would say and its really interesting to think about why theyre there.

I killed vasha for being gross about women and threatening. but the other two seem weird. like is being a single mom of six kids a really hard job that leaves you with no time whatsoever? yes. is it so flexible that you have time to make ENEMIES? to forge a hatred of you so deep that they wish to K I L L YOU? what the fuck did you do man! why would anyone want to kill a woman taking care of 6 children? what da hell?

as for fultheim the fearless, im honestly just not sure i believe his story. mercenary for hire, remorseful, regretful, and scared encountering fate. he apparently didnt really feel bad about his occupation then and want to stop before recent memory. he says hes like so sorry and totally understands hes done a lot of wrong and he "killed a lot of people" - his words, so he didnt feel bad and decide to stop? fultheim "the fearless," who killed lots of people, is begging for his life on the floor of a cabin. I play a murderer in this game like every fucking time i make a character, i just like to make them twisted individuals in some way. I hold no moral failing over npc murderer for hire guy for doing the same thing. i just dont think his story really makes sense either.

Does anyone not buy either of their stories? Is there anyone you save every time?

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u/salamipope — 5 days ago
▲ 0 r/plants

Theyre starting to develop their seed pods finally and im stoked to have some extra seeds to throw around the garden. I know their seed dispersal method is explosion so theyll throw themselves wherever, but my backyard is mostly clay and my dad would end up ripping them out if they just grew anywhere. Trying to sow them in the garden beds for next year by fall if i can, but this is a bit of a ticking time bomb. Wait too long, they explode and good luck finding them. Harvest too soon, seeds arent viable.

Ive never done seed harvesting before. Tips?

u/salamipope — 8 days ago
▲ 546 r/Irises

Planted irises for my mother in the winter. Wasnt expecting them to bloom for another year!

Im in an area where irises arent expected to survive well hence the wait for flowering. I companion planted an arroyo lupine and theres some other stowaways growing in the container, everything is thriving. mom couldnt be happier and neither could i. I covered the irises with some palm frond fibers when the leaves were still cut down so she wouldnt notice them and surprised her and dad with a garden makeover for christmas :]

so far weve had like 7 blooms come up and it looks like more are coming all just from this same plant. its like a fireworks show, it freaking rocks. I love irises. I think these are tall beards?

u/salamipope — 8 days ago