u/sadgirl_2025

I wore a perfume everyday for 6 months until I ran out that I HATED LOL REALLY HATED because my bf loved it and gifted it to me. He thought it smelled amazing on me and I thought I smelled like someone’s grandma..I love perfume but that scent was awful to me. Anyways I wore it to make him happy even though it gave me a headache….

Ahh please help me. I am a female in a long term heterosexual relationship, we’re both in our 30s and the sex life has totally died. I have tried to revive it multiple times over the span of 6 months and nothing is working! I have initiated it every single time, I had done the full body massages, the oral, the flirty touching, it’s all received well but he is doing nothing about it and it’s frustrating and also scaring me. We have done it twice extremely quickly because I started it, in the last 6 months. He never initiates first but he gives me physical reassurances in non sexual ways. I’m confused because he says he likes me, he gets boners, he flirts back.

We have had our normal couples ups and downs and we used to have a regular sex life, I don’t understand why he has stopped caring about it. I have told him what I want and need multiple times and 0 effort is made. I have tried being serious, tried joking casually about missing it. I have asked what I am doing wrong and he tells me he cares and is into it BUT SHOWS 0 effort. IDK what to do anymore, I am happy in every other part of the relationship and don’t want it to end.

I am stating to feel like he must just not be attracted to me anymore or must be more attracted to someone else. I know he occasionally is checking out porn (he doesn’t know I know 😂).

Is he just so comfortable that he has lost all interest in that part of our relationship? I don’t understand how this man doesn’t show me at all that he has needs. I know he is not cheating because we spend a lot of time together. So what gives? I need help to figure out why, I have asked and he brushes it off. I need help to figure out how I can fix his interest. TYIA!

Ahh please help me. I am a female in a long term heterosexual relationship and the sex life has totally died. We are both in our 30s and talking marriage and kids. I have tried to revive it multiple times over the span of 6 months and nothing is working! I have initiated it every single time, I had done the full body massages, the oral, the flirty touching, it’s all received well but he is doing nothing about it and it’s frustrating and also scaring me. We have done it twice extremely quickly because I started it, in the last 6 months. He never initiates first but he gives me physical reassurances in non sexual ways. I’m confused because he says he likes me, he gets boners, he flirts back.

We have had our normal couples ups and downs and we used to have a regular sex life, I don’t understand why he has stopped caring about it. I have told him what I want and need multiple times and 0 effort is made. I have tried being serious, tried joking casually about missing it. I have asked what I am doing wrong and he tells me he cares and is into it BUT SHOWS 0 effort. IDK what to do anymore, I am happy in every other part of the relationship and don’t want it to end.

I am stating to feel like he must just not be attracted to me anymore or must be more attracted to someone else. I know he occasionally is checking out porn (he doesn’t know I know 😂).

Is he just so comfortable that he has lost all interest in that part of our relationship? I don’t understand how this man doesn’t show me at all that he has needs. I know he is not cheating because we spend a lot of time together. So what gives? I need help to figure out why, I have asked and he brushes it off. I need help to figure out how I can fix his interest. TYIA!

Ahh please help me. I am a female in a long term heterosexual relationship and the sex life has totally died. I have tried to revive it multiple times over the span of 6 months and nothing is working! I have initiated it every single time, I had done the full body massages, the oral, the flirty touching, it’s all received well but he is doing nothing about it and it’s frustrating and also scaring me. We have done it twice extremely quickly because I started it, in the last 6 months. He never initiates first but he gives me physical reassurances in non sexual ways. I’m confused because he says he likes me, he gets boners, he flirts back.

We have had our normal couples ups and downs and we used to have a regular sex life, I don’t understand why he has stopped caring about it. I have told him what I want and need multiple times and 0 effort is made. I have tried being serious, tried joking casually about missing it. I have asked what I am doing wrong and he tells me he cares and is into it BUT SHOWS 0 effort. IDK what to do anymore, I am happy in every other part of the relationship and don’t want it to end.

I am stating to feel like he must just not be attracted to me anymore or must be more attracted to someone else. I know he occasionally is checking out porn (he doesn’t know I know 😂).

Is he just so comfortable that he has lost all interest in that part of our relationship? I don’t understand how this man doesn’t show me at all that he has needs. I know he is not cheating because we spend a lot of time together. So what gives? I need help to figure out why, I have asked and he brushes it off. I need help to figure out how I can fix his interest. TYIA!