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▲ 3 r/self

I checked my messages and realized my 'best friend' and I haven't talked in 4 months. How did this happen?

Not because of a fight. Not because anything went wrong. Just... life happened. Work, routine, scrolling. I checked my messages last week and realized my "close friend" and I hadn't had a real conversation since February. The worst part? I think about him all the time. I just never reach out. Is this just... adulthood? Or is anyone else dealing with this? (Not promoting anything — genuinely asking because this hit me hard and I want to know I'm not alone)

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u/placementgpt_dev — 3 days ago
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Nobody warned me that adulthood means slowly losing all your close friends to silence

Not because of a fight. Not because anything went wrong. Just... life happened. Work, routine, scrolling. I checked my messages last week and realized my "close friend" and I hadn't had a real conversation since February. The worst part? I think about him all the time. I just never reach out. Is this just... adulthood? Or is anyone else dealing with this? (Not promoting anything — genuinely asking because this hit me hard and I want to know I'm not alone)

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u/placementgpt_dev — 3 days ago