u/pinkoceannn

the answer i truly want to flat out and say but i never do.

my husband wants a divorce and we share a child together. i just want to know how do you handle the embarrassment if your husband files for divorce? it feels like my life is slowly crumbling in front of my eyes.

they don’t understand the dreadful hours you put in day by day to even get a job. people just see that you’re unemployed and automatically think you’re lazy or that your just living your best life but in reality we’re stressed out because the bills are piling up while we’re unemployed!

this is why i would never choose to be a sahm ever again. because the man wants to leave the picture he will leave you stranded and have you “figure” it out with no financial back up. i don’t have a job and now i have to start over from scratch. being a sahm can break you if your husband leave you.

$20 more to fill my tank smh.

why just why? .. these apartments aren’t worth paying $2,000 a month! they’re also charging up to $1,600 for a one bedroom apartment!

if so why?.. this is a judgement free zone btw..

nowadays you gotta hold on for dear life for the job you probably hate until you land a new one. quitting your job in hopes to find a new one in a short period of time is slim to none.

A. the mom who says hi/greet themselves to other moms.

B. the mom who is too fucking tired to chat to other parents at the park.

C. the mom who seeks other mom friends.

D. the mom who avoids conversation at all cost because they have social anxiety.

E. the mom who only spends 20-30 minutes max at the park!

almost every saturday i would pick a random spot to take my child out to go play and within the next half our or so here comes someone waking in hosting a kids party.. honestly it just gets annoying after a while. i wish these companies would allow free weekends atleast once or twice month without hosting parties. a

honestly, once you become an adult and start paying bills/living on your own the depression of life hits you like a ton of bricks. you gotta work 8-10 a day, clean, cook, pay bills, deal with traffic, work with toxic employees/bosses, hear about the tragedy that happens around the world, find out you have adhd as an adult or autism, deal with back pain due to overworking.. and so on.. i’m tired.

i’m in the parking lot getting drunk before my therapy appointment.. cheers! 🥂

some days i feel incredibly exhausted mentally and physically but i have to keep pulling through for my child. it hits different when you’re a mom and you can’t bed rot on days you just don’t feel like doing anything. i would like to know what do you do to keep yourself going on days like this?

please don’t be one of those people who comment “well technically reddit is social media”… the social media apps i permanently deleted was (tiktok, instagram and facebook).. i no longer care to post my life and update a bunch of strangers / people from high school who i don’t see or talk to anymore lol. social media has became incredibly performative and there’s just a bunch of people lurking and in competition with each other. i don’t care to see what others are doing on a daily basis and don’t care to share what i’m doing neither.. it feels better to be private and it’s more peaceful without it .. so yea i officially abandoned and outgrew the social media circus.

took my daughter to chuck e cheese today.. apparently they stopped selling beer because certain parents got out of hand and ruined it for everybody..

i guess it depends on which chuck e cheese you go to because when i was in another state previously they sold beer at that one..

why are companies selling mega lego blocks for $20!!!! i can’t even enjoy buying toys for my toddler… the other day i went to walmart and i saw a small ass peppa pig toy for $8 .. ridiculous!

i honestly feel like if i would’ve focused more on myself and personal goals instead of putting myself through back to back relationships i would’ve been at a better place financially, mentally and living more comfortably. this is one of my biggest life lesson that i’ve learned .. also, it’s not selfish to focus on yourself. the people who i see that focus on themselves and get there life in order instead of relationships truly inspires me.

i know everybody’s different, just would like to know what is helping you stay sane?