▲ 135 r/catpics
my lady cat who has the aura of an old fat man
im obsessed with her. meet oreo
u/pigeonlover6 — 10 hours ago
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▲ 53 r/trichotillomania
this is now the only visible sign of my struggle left!:D
looks really minor but when I part my hair any place on my scalp it shows my new spiky growth - struggled really badly with trich since childhood and hit an ultimate low in 2020 when I had a huge bald patch on the back half of my scalp and couldn’t leave the house without spending ages doing a ponytail that’d hide it. it was really isolating, I was in first or second year of secondary school at the time (was 13/14) and it was the breaking point for me to finally go to therapy and to deal with how I feel because trich was just a manifestation of my anxiety and the fact that now despite still daily struggling with it- this is the only visible evidence left! feeling both proud and frustrated that it’s still ongoing but it’s not over yet 🩷
u/pigeonlover6 — 22 hours ago
▲ 10 r/cats
lady with the aura of an elderly fat man
meet oreo!! she’s my silly girl lmao hope u like the pics :)
u/pigeonlover6 — 1 day ago
▲ 51 r/MEOW_IRL
MEOW_IRL
my precious girl oreo who despite being a lady has the aura of a old fat man
u/pigeonlover6 — 1 day ago
▲ 7 r/eyes
what shape are my eyes?
been told I have big eyes my entire life ( including by total strangers) but don’t really know what shape they’re considered to be? any ideas?
u/pigeonlover6 — 1 day ago
▲ 1 r/Artadvice
trying to think of ideas to spice up this reference pic before I paint!
couple different versions I plan to kinda merge so I can show the colors of the light and make it stand out more, but I can’t think of any ways to make it more interesting beyond that- I like how it is right now, I just would love to add and was wondering if anyone had any suggestions or thoughts!
if it’s of any help, my end goal for the painting is for it to reflect some kind of wonder (which is why I plan to show all the colors that make up white light as that’s immediately how I feel when I see it)
would love to hear any ideas if there are any, thanks in advance 🩷
u/pigeonlover6 — 1 day ago
:D give it a go!
included my kitty oreo at the end lmao- would love to be drawn! i’m an artist so am not usually getting drawn myself n I posted to drawme so I wanted to try here too!! :D thank u so much in advance <3
(put a few pics to choose from so have fun and no pressure !! :) )
u/pigeonlover6 — 1 day ago
▲ 116 r/drawme
hi! I plan to pursue art in my future but I have never been drawn haha
I’m gonna go thru this sub and do some drawings now that i’ve discovered its existence lmao, and thank you so much in advance if you feel up for doing a doodle!!! ANY STYLE IS WELCOME :D
u/pigeonlover6 — 3 days ago
▲ 28 r/ARFID
i am so excited that this subreddit exists
I just found this I am kinda emotional lol i feel understood way more than I have ever before in regards to my arfid
it feels so isolating to have arfid because no one can understand the fear n avoidance. The fact people like me exist omfg 😭 I love you all
I can’t stop reading them and crying because it’sNOT JUST MEE!!!
i’m really having a hard time with food rn, I can’t get myself to eat what I need to and seeing this place exists just gives me a lot of hope for what I can accomplish and makes me feel so much less alone
u/pigeonlover6 — 3 days ago
▲ 2 r/self
i want to become less empathetic(?) because Im 99% sure it’s what’s making me miserable 😭
I don’t know how to phrase this so i’m just gonna say shit but I 19F have always been very aware of other peoples feelings on a very personal level-
I’ve had some difficulties with my mental health since I was 12 as i’m a very anxious person and one thing I have noticed stay prevalent is my inability to separate someone venting to me from me feeling those feelings they describe - it’s like when people tell me how they feel or what they’re going through and instead of my brain hearing it my brain FEELS it which is normal but it gets so intense that I spiral myself into panic attacks because I can’t fix it for them and take it away. I also struggle A LOTT with (don’t know how to explain this at all so bear with) like trying to predict peoples feelings about me and how they’re interpreting me and if even one minuscule unimportant thing (e,g Not making enough eye contact) can make me feel such a strong sense of I need to get out of their space now they’re annoyed i’m making it worse bla bla -
dont really know how to not feel this :(
edit: rereading this makes me feel silly lmao I mean like I just am overly aware and conscious of the minds of people around me and can’t seperate my feelings from other a lot of the time idk (empathetic feels like a kinda incorrect word for this post to me but I don’t know what else works 😭)
u/pigeonlover6 — 3 days ago
rural ireland <3
took these over the last two days in the west of ireland n wanted to share :D
u/pigeonlover6 — 3 days ago