u/peppermentpattie

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Fired from my caregiver job

I was a caregiver for a client with the wife in the home for almost five months. I was doing a good job and the wife liked me or so I thought she did. But the last two weeks her attitude changed towards me. She got mad at me because I turned off the bathroom light. And she came into the room assuming I was talking about something that I wasn't talking about. Her husband liked to watch porn with the aides in the room with him too. I believe she fired me because she became jealous. And I didn't tell anyone how inappropriate her husband was to me. He told me he wanted to have sex with me but I said no. I didn't tell my agency I just kept it to myself. So for the past two weeks she would mean mug me like she was plotting on getting rid of me. So the day of my firing finally came because when I was giving him a bed bath I turned the bed setting off and forgot to turn it back on. So she called my agency and had me fired from the shift. Here's the thing I still a little upset with. I thought she liked me enough to give me another chance. I texted her and said I was sorry but she was really mean and harsh saying stuff like she doesn't trust me anymore and to leave her and her husband alone. I was floored at that response. It was like maybe she never liked me at all to just discard me like trash.

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u/peppermentpattie — 2 days ago
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Fired from Job

I was a caregiver for a client I really liked. I was taking care of the husband. I was there for almost 5 months. I thought the wife liked me because she would say she was glad I was there. But suddenly for the last two weeks her attitude changed towards me. She got angry at me for turning out his bathroom light and she started listening in on my conversations with her husband. Her husband liked to watch porn with the aides in the room too. But I didn't tell anyone how inappropriate her husband was to me. He told me he always wanted to have sex with a blk girl and ask me if I would have sex with him. I said no. I don't really know why the wife friendly attitude changed towards me. I believe it was because she became jealous. So within those two weeks she stopped liking me it was like she was waiting on me to mess up so she can fire me. And that day came. When I gave him a bed bath I turned the settings off on his bed and forgot to turn it back on so she called my agency and had me fired from the shift. This the part I am still sad about. When I texted her and told her I was sorry she was so harsh with me saying I don't want to back and I don't trust you anymore and to leave me and my husband alone. I was upset when she said that because I thought she liked me enough to give me another chance. But instead treated me like I was nothing. I took good care of her husband but I believe she fired me because of jealousy.

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u/peppermentpattie — 2 days ago

Making a living

I was fired from my job of five months. And an thinking of doing Uber eats delivery full time. But where I live people only start delivering in the afternoon and night time. Is food delivery anybody else man job. If so how much do y'all make.

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u/peppermentpattie — 4 days ago
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I don't have physical friends I can talk to. I had two online friends for the past five years and I found out yesterday that one passed away. The last time I talked to her was in December and she said she wasn't feeling well. I have another online friend and she said she has some health issues too. We all bonded over our awful home life and kept in touch. I'm not close to my living siblings and extended family except one aunt. But now the aunt is 90 and have dementia. So I guess you can say I've lost her too. Do anyone want to take my friend place and be my online friend.

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u/peppermentpattie — 10 days ago