I found out a month ago that my husband has been emotionally cheating with a girl he met online for 5 years, we've been in a long distance relationship for 4 years and 2 years now in person and we got married 3 months ago. I didn't see any signs or anything, he was always kind, attentive and nice until the day he confessed everything because the other woman found out and threatened him to tell me, at the end both did, he told me it was texting, calls, photos, video calls, normal and sexual but that he was manipulating her and hurted her, he also says that he never wanted her for a romantic relationship but he cares about her and finds her physically and sexually attractive.
It's been hard and I don't know if my delayed honeymoon will help us to get through this, is there any hope? Does it get better? We talked with people in our church community who went through the same and it was helpful, we are also seeing therapists (separately) and he seems regretful and honest so I'm choosing reconciliation and I'd like to hear experiences of people who survived infidelity