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I just found out this week that my 'ex now' (supposed to say partner) is with high probability, cheating on me.
I didn't tell him anything. I simply pulled away. Of course, he won't care nor question it. the man is enjoying his time. I used to give him space thinking it was part of his needs, but those spaces turned into disappearing.
Now, I'm not here for this whole stupid story it has a lot lot of details. I just want to know if I'm doing something wrong, because this is around the 3rd relationship I've been cheated on.
Especially the last one, I didn't expect it at all. The relationship was perfect (not for me), but from his side, I mean that I made that man secure, safe, and I gave all my sincerity. He knows everything. I keep nothing hidden from him. I treat him in a very good way. I put effort into this. We were also discussing marriage, just to give you an idea of how serious it was. And I can assure that this is the most serious relationship I've been in, and I was the typical good partner in it.
What do you guys do to keep your partners from leaving? Is there something I'm missing?
Because here I just mentioned 3 relationships cause they were kinda the official ones. In fact, every other dating or talking stage I had led up to them leaving silently with no reasons.
I'm honestly doubting myself.
And my brain won't shut up from this idea that keeps telling me if I was already married and plus pregnant from that man, he would still leave because of how worthless I feel now. Which hurts even more.
Now, before anyone tells me that I cannot be the only victim, especially the last relationship, I am not here to play victim. But I assure you this time that I was the one getting wronged. Even his close best friend assured it as I talked to him trying to find any excuse for him, any mistake I did from my side. He literally told me to shut up and assured that I did nothing wrong, and it's just his lust. He wanted to talk to him I said no.
But I still don't know why I'm living this kind of interaction on repeat. I've lost my confidence when it comes to relationships, especially starting a family. I think that the whole dating lifestyle changed in our generation but i'd really appreciate any tips on how to secure a serious relationship.
i (F 22) i dont know if anyone experienced this, but basically i'm poor, and as i grew up i made friends. the problem is that whenever i make friends, i find out that they come from waaaay wealthier backgrounds than me, and it makes me embarrassed because i can't share my personal life nor invite them to my place.
for example, a friend of mine already owns his own house at 24. he's probably planning to get a ferrari as his first car by now. another told me she can buy her own house if she wants, and she’s just around 21 ig. i am not even kidding.
i tried to distance myself from them and make other friends around my lvl, so i just met this friend. once, i was helping her with something so she opened the cam, and her room looked like a palace, sooo classy and elegant. they're all Moroccans btw.
i have no problem with them when it comes to similar interests and taste, i just feel that once they discover how poor i am they might leave me.
for context, sometimes i cant even afford proper food nor medical care.
what bothers me is that this doesn't just apply to friends, even the people i meet who might become potential partners are the same. you might say i am lucky, but i see no luck when they decide to take it seriously and meet family for khutba, the gap would be a huge shock.
i'd like to ask rich people here, do you guys judge someone based on their background? cuz i feel stuck in this circle.