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Hi people, I’m a guy, 21, 22 soon, i’m in a really hard situation right now and I could really use all the help I can get so without wasting your time let’s get to the point.

I’m in the lowest point in my life right now and i’m really struggling with mental health, I’m 21 and I don’t have any degree or even bac, I have no job or skills that can make up for it, the only thing I’m good at are English and tech in general, I really tried to do something, I sit in front of my laptop all day trying to find something but nothing, my priority now is to find a way to make money because I feel like a liability to my parents I could really use some help on how I can get out of this situation or some suggestions to how I can make money or find a job, I live in meknes and lastly thank you ao much for listening.

A guy I met a few times in chess regional competitions (like 5 times, since 2024) said he wants to marry me, not be his gf, but marry him. Shocking, yes. Let me explain.

The last time we met in a chess competition, we chatted a lot. There were multiple other people but we had the same vibe and talked, just the two of us. We kept talking like two people having a normal conversation about chess and school. He got my chess acc (a few months ago, got my number just like friends). And then today, he said he likes me, and wants to marry me, and live a beautiful life. I'm the kind of girl who's never been in a relationshi p by the way, and I don't wanna get into one. I want to find the one, get to know each other, see if we're compatible, then get married. I didn't turn him down, because I'm open and ready to get to know him more and give him a chance. I told him we can go out later, to get to know each other and give 'us' a chance (maybe at the age of 22/25). I wonder how do I know if he's the one, and I have a question: do you need to be madly in love with someone in order to marry them?

NB: we're still young. Still in highschool (both 16).

EDIT: Guys, I never said he meant he wants to marry me at this age. It's just something I consider, at an older and more mature age. For people who tell me to focus on my studies, well I'm a top student and I'm very ambitious, same thing for him.

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​Sometimes, we feel like we’ve been busy all day long, from the moment we woke up until the time we put our heads on the pillow for a deep sleep. But when we go through our day, we find out that we left too many tasks undone, even though we had enough time to do them all. Why is that?

​An example to clarify this: you’re busy all day, doing work-related tasks, but not progressing on what matters. Doing some research on the internet, I found out that not only is this real, but it’s one of the biggest hidden productivity traps, and it’s called "Pseudo-productivity."

​The Mechanics of the Trap

​Pseudo-productivity happens when we focus at work and eliminate all external distraction (like social media), but what happens is we get distracted by work itself.

​Examples: Answering emails all day, attending meetings with no good purpose, fixing small urgent issues, helping colleagues constantly.

​Although all this may seem productive, it pulls us away from Deep Work. ### Deep Work vs. Shallow Work

To get the idea clear, we must know that there are 2 types of work, as Cal Newport emphasizes in his book "Deep Work":

​Shallow Work: Easy to execute, reactive, feels urgent, and has low value.

​Deep Work: Requires focus, creates real value, and moves you forward.

​The trap is that when external distractions are removed, work tends to create its own. When focusing too much on shallow work, you may think, "I'm focused, I'm not wasting time," but the truth is, you’re reacting, not progressing.

​Why does this happen? Our brains prefer easy wins, quick tasks, and instant feedback. So they choose replying, checking, and fixing instead of thinking, building, and learning.

​Example: You planned to write a report for a client (estimated 1 hour). You started, but in between, you answer messages, check reports, help teammates, etc. At the end, you’re tired; you were busy working, but made little to no progress on the real task you planned!

​The Solution: Moving from Misdirected to Directed

​At this point, you’re not distracted; you’re misdirected. To fix this, ask yourself whenever you start doing something: "Is this moving me forward, or just keeping me busy?"

​The 3-Step Action Plan:

​Time Blocking: Plan your day in blocks of 30 min. Each one is dedicated to something; avoid doing anything else.

​Delay Shallow Tasks: Delay all non-urgent tasks.

​Protect Your Focus: Guard the time meant for high-value work.

​Key Takeaway: Distraction is not always external; it can wear a suit and call itself "work."

I start shivering during presentations…the problem is i don’t shiver in my hands or voice, i shiver in my legs like a kid🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

The whole thing is like an illusion, i know them all, i might not be close to them but i certainly know they’re not any better than me to feel the stress!!!

I just wanna get rid of that and i’ll be back to my tuff self again

I think fl generation li 9bel rjal kan 3ndhoum edge dyal lflous , kan ay wa7d 5dam y9der ytzwej wydir 3a2ila ,

But rn women can work too so they are looking for something more than just financial stability in their partner (looks..etc)

That’s what’s making men frustrated nowadays cause they’re getting rejection after another even though they did whatever society told them that’s gonna make them (good men)

O hadchi 3lach kanchofo bzaf dyal l’hate towards women in the manosphere

Hey everyone,

I’ve noticed that living with roommates can be really tricky for students. Sometimes people have very different habits, schedules, or expectations, and small things like cleaning, paying bills on time, or communication can turn into stress. Even when you finally find a place, getting along with the person you live with is not always easy.

I’m curious to hear from students who’ve lived in shared apartments. What’s been the hardest part for you? Did you ever find someone who just clicked with your lifestyle, or did it always feel like luck? Any stories, tips, or advice would be great to read.

Who here actually received the IR exemption for CDI hires after Jan 31, post-COVID?

Did your employer handle it, or did you have to manage it yourself?

Hi, I am Moroccan female residing in the UK, planning to move back to Morocco, I have a degree in accounting and finance from a UK university.

Is there any chance of finding an opportunity back home? Or it’s extremely unlikely!! I am slightly concerned tbf, because there is no point otherwise:/