u/jumbohotdog___

Hi there! New here and trying to explore😂

im open for friendship and lets see if it leads to more

abt me: im from philippines. 5’1 80kg and i like going out. i usually go out with friends to explore new restos or cafe or play badminton. i also play MLBB so hit me up if u also play so we can play together.😂

Im open to dating. LDR is fine as long as theres communication and compromise.

Im also busy with school most of the time so hopefully u would understand

Problem/Goal: I cant seem to find myself being attracted or emotionally interested to him or guys who are good pero pag dating sa redflags or those guys na pinapachase or kilig promax g na g

Context: ive been talking to this guy for a month and yk talking for fun lang — go with the flow — we talked about our exes and all pero ang di ko inexpect is when he started to worry about things like if im eating ba or sleeping properly. I wanted to pull away (from anxious to avoidant) pero i didnt do it kasi i knew its wrong. i asked my friends for advice they all say na not to complicate things and go with the flow — enjoy the moment. Pero it lingered in my mind kasi, tumatagal I still dont feel any spark, curiosity, etc. like if hes gone by tmr ill be confused pero okay. i kept asking myself bat ganito? maybe im used to red flags? maybe im used to instant connections? or maybe im just not that into him and im just making excuses? like hes a good guy and all pero i just dont feel the pull. im so confused kasi yun yung guy na gusto ko pero yun na nandito na sya ako na yung 🚩 he also started calling me baby pero yun baby din tinatawag ko sakanya kasi akala ko joke2 lang pero iba talaga na sesense ko eh. he updates, compliments, wallpaper pa nga pero yun lang im confused.

Previous Attempts: subtle sayings lang na im not resdy for relationships or anything. asked ai and friends for advices.