Hey everybody! would love to invite you sa among gc if you want to join esp those people na ganahan mag run/hike or any hobbies kay welcome rapod didto. Pwde pod pang side quest and bardagulan if ma boringan.
Char lng kinsay molibre jabee dra guys gutom kaau as in nursing student ko now gatuon i need food but nahurot na ako allowance 😞
‼️ Kinda Long Story ‼️
I just wanna share this and maybe get some enlightenment from you guys.
Me (25M) met someone here on Reddit (25F) last year. I’ll call her Nics. Honestly, she’s one of the prettiest girls I’ve ever met. Chinita, cute, slightly chubby, very feminine manamit. Exactly my type gyud. If the timing and situation were right, manguyab gyud unta ko niya.
She replied to one of my posts, then nag exchange mig pics sa TG. We appreciated each other’s photos and decided to eat at Tamp after 3 days. Funny enough, late siya almost 1 hour so medyo nahasol ko kay syempre first impressions matter. Pero pag abot niya? Na erase tanan. Grabe ka pretty and super fun kasturya.
After lunch we watched a movie, things got spicy, we kissed, almost did the deed. She told me she “liked me a lot,” and honestly I felt the same.
But after that first date, things became confusing.
Our texts were very minimal. Slow replies, sometimes 20 to 30 minutes, sometimes whole days without replies. Pero okay ra unta kay dili man mi uyab and she told me daan nga dili gyud siya hilig mag text and she sleeps a lot. I understood that.
Over the next 4 months, nagkita mi 3 more times. This time we already did the deed every date. Every time magkita mi, sweet kaayo siya. She would tell me she misses me, thinks about me all the time, really likes me, and wants to try harder sa communication. Every time she comes back, I fall harder.
Then after every date… mura rag mawala siya.
Cold again. Barely replies. Sometimes nothing at all.
Then 2 months passed with zero contact. I even deactivated my IG because sige kog stalk sa iya stories and it was honestly messing with my head.
Then suddenly, she messaged me again asking if gusto ba ko makig eat out. Of course niyes ko immediately.
Nag VL pa gani ko sa work just to see her.
That day felt perfect. Nag samgyup mi, she bought me ice cream, holding hands, smiling at each other, very sweet gyud. We watched another movie did the deed and honestly that was probably our best “performance” together lol.
Again she told me:
“I miss you.”
“I always think about you.”
“I’m sorry wala ko nagparamdam.”
She even made plans with me for the following week. Pilates daw mi and she told me to text her when naa ko sa akong work site near her place.
For the first time, I genuinely thought:
“Okay, maybe this is finally our turning point.”
After the date she texted me nga nakauli na siya and matulog na.
Then pagka ugma…
Nothing.
No texts.
No replies.
No updates.
2 weeks na and still nothing.
I honestly feel sad and a little stupid. Murag napaasa ko. Murag backburner ra ko niya. Like someone she remembers only when convenient or when she feels lonely.
The gym honestly saved me a bit kay didto nako ginagawas tanan emotions. Pero after workouts, usahay magamit gihapon kog burner account just to stalk her stories.
Part of me wants to move on.
Part of me keeps hoping she’ll message again.
I really don’t know what to do anymore.
I’m 34F currently single.
Ladies be careful of whom you date and filter it out
Some men are just too good to be true
Guys if you aren’t over your ex, pls don’t even try to date
I struggle with forming romantic relationships gyod. I don’t know how to flirt LOL, I’ve never been in a long term relationship. And sometimes I feel like I’m emotionally handicapped.
Like a few guys have liked me, even had boyfriends before, pero I could not feel anything for them. And then for those that I actually like, either they don’t like me or I feel like I become too much and push them away.
Sometimes I wonder if I’m meant to be alone. Like mygod trentahin naman ko uy and I still struggle. Don’t know if others feel the same way, but maybe you can relate. 😫
Turning 27 in a city I barely know, no plans, no people, open to changing that
It's my birthday week. I moved here 4 years and I'll be real — I haven't exactly built a social circle yet. Most of my energy goes into self development not networking.
So instead of pretending I have plans or waiting until midnight to feel weird about it, I'm posting this.
I'm not looking for anything scripted. No pre-planned bar crawl, no awkward "so what do you do" energy. Just good company, maybe food, maybe a walk, maybe we end up doing something neither of us expected. I'm easy to be around and I won't make it weird.
A bit about me:
- 5'9 single
- More interesting in person than on paper
- Will not spend my birthday talking about astrology or the housing market
What I'm actually looking for:
Someone who can hold a real conversation and isn't afraid of spontaneous. Plans are overrated anyway — the best ones happen in the moment.
If this lands weird, scroll on. If it sounds like a decent Tuesday, drop a message!!
I prefer genuine connections and good conversations.
I’m 28, around 5’6–5’7 ata ko pero ipa-double check pa nako lol. Into archery, running, reading, gym, and trying new things pud. Ana sila arangan daw kog nawng ug murag pirmi naka-aircon haha, pero ikaw na bahala judge ana.
Anyways, padung na pud ko 30 so medyo gi-accept na nako nga basin single jud forever hahaha. Pero yeah, ganahan lang ko mo side quest, meet good people, and make genuine memories along the way.
If naa moy ma suggest or interested makig connect, let me know. Thanks!
Hi!
Just arrived in Cebu for a work trip from May 4–8, 2026. I’m hoping to meet someone local who’d be down to date, explore some spots I’ve never been to, and just enjoy good company :”)
We can get to know each other along the way—who knows, maybe we’ll vibe and see where it goes?
Here’s about me:
- 5’1”
- Morena
- Wears glasses
- Works in the medical field
- Family means everything to me! So I hope you’re someone who’s open to that kind of love too :)
- Trying to revive my gamer era 🎮 (plays Valorant, COD, PUBG)
What I’m trying to look for:
Nothing rushed. I’m here for something genuine. Someone kind, emotionally available, and consistent.
So yeah… this might just be another post in a sea of posts. But maybe. Just maybe. This where something good begins.
See you, I guess?
First time on here :> I’m looking for someone to connect/talk to and let’s see if we vibe!
A little about me:
- 24
- licensed professional
- 164cm (5’4 1/2)
- 53kg
- fair
- wears glasses but hates them
- i read a lot
- vv family oriented and a cat lover hehe
- kind of sensitive but will lash it out when crossed lol
- i’ve only ever been in one rs in my life. I don’t go around.
- I’m a girly girl. I like make up, bags, and cute things. I enjoy dressing up and looking good.
- I sometimes play pickleball and go running.
I’m looking for:
-someone taller than me pls!! When i say I’m 164cm that’s from my medical exam (not lying ab it). I’ve dated someone around my height and it didn’t turn out well lol so maybe mas naa pay chance sa taller dudes
- a gentleman. I don’t need to explain loll
- idc if you’re moreno, chinito, mestizo, all those identification blabla basta you’re clean looking and you know how to pick up after yourself !
- a kind person. kind to animals, children, elderly
- someone who’s maybe into sports/ fitness
- it’s a plus if you also read but it’s ok if you don’t
- a professional/college graduate
I’m open to sharing pics/igs
I wanna make my weekends memorable. I wanted to try hiking, running, tennis, cafe hopping, and more.
Note: I'm a beginner though.
Please include me if you have groups for the above-mentioned. I wanna make most of my weekends.
Looking for good company, new friends, and fun memories this season. Hoping to meet people from different places and enjoy the summer together.
I miss talking to people who actually have depth. Conversations that naturally flow for hours without feeling forced, performative, or shallow. These days, everything feels so disposable. People crave connection, yet avoid vulnerability at the same time.
So tell me something life has taught you recently. A realization, a quiet struggle, or simply who you are when nobody’s watching. I’m not looking for perfection or constant entertainment. Just sincerity.
I work in the medical field, and a big part of who I am revolves around being career-driven and always trying to grow into better opportunities. It’s not just about work for me, but more about building a life that feels stable, meaningful, and progressive over time. I’m 5’2”, around 49 kg, lighter-skinned, and I wear glasses. I tend to come across as put-together and focused, but in reality I’m a mix of disciplined and quietly laid-back.
Outside of work, I try to make time for myself whenever I can. I like reading books, especially when I want to slow things down and disconnect a bit. That said, I’ll be honest in a very real way, after long shifts or exhausting days, my idea of self-care is often just lying in bed, doing absolutely nothing, and letting my brain rest. It’s not always productive, but it’s how I recharge and keep going.
Long-term, I don’t see myself staying in the country. I have plans to move abroad and build a future somewhere with more opportunities, both professionally and personally. Because of that, I’d really prefer to meet someone who’s on a similar path. It matters to me that the person I’m with also has that mindset of growth, is open to relocating, and is serious about building something stable in a different environment. I’m not looking for someone who’s just figuring things out with no direction, but rather someone who has goals and is actively working toward them.
When it comes to relationships, I’m here for something serious and intentional. I value consistency, emotional maturity, and clear communication. I appreciate someone who knows what they want and is not afraid to put in the effort to build a strong and healthy connection. I’m not into casual setups or anything unclear. I’d rather take my time getting to know someone properly and see if we align in terms of values, goals, and the kind of future we both want.
Overall, I’d say I’m someone who is grounded, a bit introverted, and focused on building a better life step by step. If you’re also career-oriented, planning to move abroad, and genuinely looking for something real and long-term, then we’d probably understand each other pretty well.
Hi! I’ve posted before, and now I can make time to meet. I preferred meeting and talking in person because I think chatting people drains me. 😭
About me:
- 25F
- 5’2 Morena, petite
- Introvert, but still not an excuse not to generate questions
- post grad student 😭
- I watch anime (I only read anime manga once for Demon slayer, pls don’t judge 😭), movies (horror and romcoms), series, and read e-books (mostly self-help because I want to see other people’s pov on things that actually makes sense 😭, percy jackson)
- I do journal for my thoughts
- I sometimes do jog and hike.
- I love to go to the beach, but don’t know how to swim 😭🫠.
About you:
- Single. 24-30. No human child, and no ex-wife (or history na kinasal)
- Can create deep conversations to actually want to build connection.
- non smoker, pls.
- can swap pics but pls for an individual who asked first should have the etiquette to show it because you were curious first? Okay?
- If we pass the vibe check, we can meet. :)
- SFW, pls. I don’t do hook-ups.
helloooo anyone free to chat? feeling down lately huhu lisod kaayo ning mag work sa layo sa fam tas wala pa jud koy mga kaila diri sa akong place rn :3 we can talk about anything naman (but sfw only pls!)
idk what else to say hahahaha any chika is welcome! basin naay bored sad na stranger diha ali mag chika nalang ta 🤟🏻
Anyone up for LDR? I’m currently in Australia, I’m from Manila and I visit Cebu sometimes since we have a place there. Cebuanos are so sweet🥺 please approve this post. I need a Cebuano lambing rn. No bastos pls.
About me:
- 4'11, chubby
- 3rd year med/ student doctor
- Into horror movies especially walking dead
- Into extreme activities (ex. Gun firing)
- Into coffee shop hunting!!!
About you:
- single (24-30)
- walay anak hahahaha
- naay work/licensed engineer kung pwyde hahaha
-non smoker
- humot, puti, chinito
- naay car
- fun to talk with
-buotan dili hambog
*swap pic from the start palang sa convo or IG.
nindut ako morning kay lahi ang aura, samot nag bugnaw kasyu ang Leyte nurag Baguio
Paeta aning naniguwang nata unya magpa bebe ang cravings. Kapoy na kaayo maging warrior sa life. Di na lalim mahimong strong, independent baby girl. Ganahan nako nga soft, feminine, cared, spoiled and loved by someone.