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After a post on here about my experience going from demigirl -> genderfluid -> transmasc -> cis girl, and explaining how i deep down wish i was a trans girl, I was told about AFAB transfems being a thing.

If anyone could share some information about AFAB transfems, or some similar terms, that’d be awesome.

If you’re curious my exact experience, it’s this,

I relate deeply to trans women, find myself fitting into transfem spaces more often than enby or transmasc spaces, and fit a lot of transfem stereotypes. The word “trans” fits me, but I’m very feminine, and don’t really want to be a guy.

Looking mostly for advice on how to connect with my kins and kinsiders, as i’ve fallen out of the alterhuman community recently and lost touch with my ID. I have some kinsiders (Ivors been there for a while, so has Pajama Sam) that I never fully figured out or explored and Im not show how to.

I have two kinfirms so far, my ID, and a lesser kin that i constantly forget about. (Valerie from Cyberpink 2077 is my ID, and Rafa from Borderlands 4 is my other kinfirm).

Ive been kinsidering Ivor for a long time, I have a strong connection to MCSM, and im either him or some form of the entire game, or possibly Jesse. But Ivor makes the most sense, and being the game itself would make the second most sense.

Pajama Sam is just weirdly familiar for being a game i’ve never played or heard about and only watched one youtube video of.

I could be either Marceline or PB. I relate heavily to Marcy, but I’ve always seen it as an “oh my gosh I love Marcy” way, but maybe it’s just her songs are familiar? I haven’t watched Adventure Time in so long, but I listen to all of Marcelines songs on a regular basis.

Idk if being a Blåhaj would make me an objectkin or a fictionkin, but I love Blåhaj so much. It could be more of a objecthearted thing though.

I’d like to try to connect with each of these, to see if it fits, but I dont know how, especially seeing as i have no access to most of the medias. I don’t have any streaming services, and have no devices that can download any new games or anything.

Id also like to try to reconnect with my ID, but I don’t know how besides playing my source, which makes me extremely emotional every time i interact with it.

How can I handle these things? Any ideas, or advice?

Fallout has gotten me into a lot of older music, and I’m trying to get a massive playlist full of older hits. Anything pre eighties is good enough.

Screenshots are the songs I currently have saved for reference.

Any recommendations?

Freedom of religion and freedom of speech, until it’s Christianity (I get it, I get it, wrong words, yeah yeah. Yall hate every religion, not just Christianity, and I misused Freedom of speech.)

How would you feel if people were saying this same stuff but on a post about something queer related? That’s the exact type of shit that does happen on posts from the queer community, why are we turning around and spreading hate the same way?

Im trans and Christian. I’m tired of seeing both sides get hated on unfairly.

Edit:

If you don’t wanna see it, scroll. There is no need to spread hatred, that post wasn’t forcing Christianity on you.

And, to all saying “Thats a disgusting verse to post!” OOP wasnt choosing the verses, they were posting the daily verses from their bible app.

Dont wanna see it? Scroll.

Dont instead try to justify hating on someone, and then get mad if the exact thing you do to them happens to you.

I don’t care if there’s a difference between being Gay and being Christian, no duh, Im both. That difference does not make spreading hatred an okay thing to do towards either.

If you accept being hateful and disrespectful towards someone because of their religion, it is only fair you accept that someone hates on you the exact same way for being queer. Especially if you’re even gonna use the exact same phrasing.

Im not saying that being queer is the same as being Christian. Im saying that hate towards either shouldn’t be tolerated, and that “But Christianity is against Queer people” isn’t an excuse. Accept hate towards everyone, or combat hate the same for all.

Edit 2:

Id also like to say, if you’re gonna claim you’re hostile towards Christian’s because Christians were hostile towards you, then you can’t be mad if they turn around and start having the same excuse.

I still don’t understand why hating them and saying exactly what they supposedly say to you is okay, but it isn’t when they do it.

Edit 3:

Do yall not understand how much religion can affect and change someone’s life? How engraved it is in day to day life, how much it affects their worldview?

I have a friend who would not be with us anymore if not for his religion. His religion literally saved him from committing. Converting saved his life. Image he posts a bible quote one day, and then the entire comment section is about how they don’t wanna see that bullshit? And it’s literally the thing that saved his life.

People dedicate their entire lives to religion sometimes. Daily prayer, showing up to church, reading holy texts, stuff like that. It’s important to them, important to who they are and how they live. It’s prevalent in every day life.

Saying the hate is okay, and my comparing it to hating on queer people isn’t the same, because “religion is a choice” doesn’t make sense when people’s lives are literally built around it. Several people I know wouldn’t be here without Christ.

You understand you’re not just mad at someone’s bible quotes, right? You’re mad at everything they’ve built their life on, possibly something thats keeping them from offing themself.

Why is it okay to hate on those people? Why is that not an issue? Why is that just “people expressing their opinions”?

Tryna find good christian music but all I get is folksy stuff and country.

Ill accept any pop, 2000s adjacent rock, any crappy TV Girl sounding stuff,

literally anything but country, rap, hip hop, or whatever the fucks happening with people only using a violin and primitive drums as the music 🙏

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DO I NAME HIM? GET HIM A SISTER? HOW DO I TAKE CARE OF A HAJ????

HE WASNT PLANNED BUT I LOVE HIM ANYWAYS! I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO CARE FOR A HAJ, PLEASE HELP

Edit/Update: HI SO THIS IS MY BABY BOY, ATLAS, HE WILL EVENTUALLY BE GETTING SIBLINGS BUT MY WALLET CURRENTLY CANNOT HANDLE ANOTHER HAJ.

THANK YOU ALL