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I just confessed to my crush and she’s gay.

Ive been building a friendship with her for like 6 months and we’ve become really good friends and get along so well but AGH damn it. 😭

edit: I swear there were like no signs at all 🥀

edit 2: friendship not relationship

u/Z800G13 — 4 hours ago
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We shouldn’t hate gay people, not only do they leave more women for us, but they also take men with them

u/TBM_710 — 8 hours ago
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Since I dropped my lego plane make a tragic backstory of how it crashed

u/oryanvr — 9 hours ago
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These fake “goth” girls are a disaster bro

They probably don’t even know the bands like Bauhaus or Siouxsie and the Banshees, as far as I know they talked about some “fuck the system!!!” and I’m 99% sure they don’t even know what system they’re fighting against💔

Larp larp larp sahur

u/cinephobee — 13 hours ago
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Regarding misinformation about Islam and Muslims

Recently, I've seen sporadic bursts of Islamophobia on the teenager subs and beyond. As a Christian myself, it feels necessary for me to stand up against religious discrimination, especially considering how similar both religious are.

To clear things up:

First, Islam shares many similarities with the other Abrahamic religions (Same God, same figures etc.)

The main goal of the Abrahamic religions is to worship the Creator and to make the world a better place for all. Islam is no exception to that rule.

To clears things up about Islam:

The idea of women being less worthy than men is false. The Quran teaches people to respect their wives/partners, as stated by Surah An-Nisa 4:19 (Condemning abuse against your spouse) and Quran 2:187 (Mutual respect between partners). Abusing your partner is strictly forbidden, as it goes against the rules stated above and the overall rules of kindness and respect mentioned earlier.

Pedophilia is also forbidden. To marry/procreate, you need physical maturity (بُلوغ/Bulugh) and emotional/mental maturity (رُشْد/Rushd). Regarding Muhammed, many modern scholars estimate Aisha's age to be 18-19 (based off of her sister's age), contrary to the belief that she was 9. If a 9 year old doesn't meet the requirements of Rushd and Bulugh (with additional evidence that she was an adult), then why would 9 be permissible?

Regarding other faiths, there are multiple Quran verses that explicitly state religious tolerance and acceptance (6:108, 2:256, 60:8 etc.)

Additionally, the other Abrahamic Religions (Judaism and Christianity) are noted in Islam as "People of the Book", granting them full religious freedom.

Finally, The Quran never mentions explicitly calls people of the LGBTQ+ community harmful. As with the other Abrahamic religions, things get lost in translation/meaning over time, so many passages are taken out of context to justify queerphobia, or on the contrary, Islamophobia. According to Islam, everybody is made in God's ideal image. If Allah made everyone in their image, then why would being in the LGBTQ+ community be forbidden?

All of this is not to say that no wrongdoings have been done in the name of Islam. Extremists and terrorists go against Islam's core values of peace and respect. It is completely justified to be angry with them and their actions, but basing 2B+ people off of ISIS or Al-Qassam isn't right. Would you say that every Christian on Earth is evil because of MAGA? Or that every Jew is evil because of the conflict/genocide in Gaza? Is it wrong to be Japanese because of Japan's atrocities in WW2?

Hopefully this clears everything up about Islam. I hope you can understand that there are genuinely good people behind the religion, and that you shouldn't blindly follow hate.

(If you have anymore questions about this topic, I'll update this post to clear up anything else that I might have missed.)

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u/Huron_Nori — 6 hours ago
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My friend might be pregnant, i dont know what to do

this was one hour ago, she hasnt messaged me since.

ab*rtion is also very illegal is my area..

am i a bad friend for not knowing what to do?

Edit: My friend is 16 and her bf is 17 (i forgot to add this because my hands were shaking too much)

u/Legal-Usual8295 — 15 hours ago
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When anyone find new things

You’re interested in do you watch like a lot or YouTube videos on it?? This is me with Kemonomimi rn lol

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u/Designer-Goal9323 — 2 hours ago
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What’s a popular meme, joke, or trend you genuinely don’t find funny? I’ll start: Diddy

Yo this Diddy Kirk h$tler Epstein shit ain't even funny it gets to the point that it’s unfunny idk how people find it funny 😐

u/toasted_cat67 — 12 hours ago
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Anyone else dealing with helicopter parents?

I feel very hesitant posting this. I pray that anyone who relates to this will be delighted knowing they aren't alone.

Let me start first by saying to you all that this is not about the cute, soft, irrelevant nonsense like my parents telling me that I can't "go out with my friends" go to parties, deal with girls, or anything of that nature. I'm not interested in stuff like that. That sludge doesn't even faze me. I'm not complaining about "strict parenting" either. I'm asking if I'm alone on this level of helicopter parenting.

I'm 16m, I grew up homeschooled all my life. I go to school from home, (online private school where I'm the only student in most of my classes) and I have no hobbies outside of school, so I am tied down to two things; doomscrolling Instagram, and pottery. Sounds like the dream, but it gets old very very quickly. Yes, I read as well. I am involved with the NOI, so I have to read a lot, but the books I read are more "'bout business" and research than they are about passing time, so the seriousness takes the fun out of it. I'm affiliated with the NOI, but I'm not an official member until I turn 18 and have to start processing. You can register at 16, but you need written consent from a guardian since you're still a minor at 16. You can guess from here whether or not I have a guardian's consent. SMH... Why did they not sign the consent for the greatest program in which a black man can involve himself? I don't want to talk about that now. Not now.

The house gets noisy at times, quite literally all the time. That's why I asked if I could take the bus to the library to do my homework not even 2 miles away. The reason I was told no was because "there are homeless people sleeping in the library." I think that's quite irrational. It's hot as Satan's crack (pardon my expression) in the summer and cold as a witch's saliva in the winter, and they have no place to warm up. These are human beings that are burning and freezing. Of course they'll be inside a warm/cool library for refuge.

Not everyone who is homeless is going to be crazy, on drugs, or gonna shank me anyway, and even if they are, what difference does it make if my mom or dad is there? How are either of them going to protect me? It makes no sense to me. Most of the homeless are just at low points in their lives. Not all of them are crazy or crackheads. They're just going through trials, and they will pass them if they persevere. We all go through tough times... I hate how people try to put homeless people into some little category where they are not equal to everyone else.

I'm also big into health and fitness. I gave up fast food when I was 12 and haven't eaten it since, and I gave up meat (except fish) in November. My favorite workout is running. Running is right up there with pullups for me. I like the freedom that I feel while running. I have to ask my parents if I could go jogging. I would have preferred around the neighborhood, but I was told just up the street and back because someone could "do something to me." If I'm too far. (Still in the neighborhood by the way) I can't go around the neighborhood because apparently someone could "kidnap me." My mom gave an example of someone telling me to get inside his car, telling me the house is on fire, but then I end up in the dude's driveway. I didn't ask her this because it's a smartalec response, but I wanted to ask, even if I was dull enough to get inside a stranger's car, what is he going to do next, pick me up and take me inside?

That story brings me back to the funeral story. I was at my Uncle's funeral. What a joy to be around my Uncle! It was a shame he was taken away by a disease as ugly as cancer. May God be pleased 😔🕊🤲🏾 Ameen. During repass, they needed help taking out garbage, so I just volunteered to help. Mind you, this repass is in the cafeteria of a middle school in the middle of the woods. I know almost no one here because I rarely see this side of the family. No worries though, it's a repass, I am 15 years old at the time, old enough to go on the side of a middleschool in broad daylight to dump some garbage bags into the garbage can. However; my dad told me to sit down and stop trying to help out, because if I went outside, I could "easily get snatched up." I disagree with my dad. It's just simple as this; no I couldn't "easily get snatched up" at 15 years old on the side of a middle school in the country during repass. And I'm sure anyone can agree with me on that.

This is only a couple of examples of my parents' helicopter parenting. This is intense, and I might even regret posting this. However; do not say anything slick or off about my mom or my dad. I will ask the mods to ban you if you do. Keep everything respectful, because its not like they are abusive or neglectful, they just smother me. I'm not here to slack talk my parents with you, I'm asking if I'm alone on the smothering or not. Be respectful.

I know I am blessed for having two parents alive, together, and who care about me, and I am eternally grateful for this life. 🤲🏾 However; some of this stuff is absolutely wild. They are just doing entirely too much. I feel like a plant that needs to be repotted. I took all the nutrients from my old soil, and I have outgrown my old pot. I'm ready for a bigger pot now, and new, fresh soil. I've outgrown that old stuff from when I was a little child, and I'm ready to take on bigger things now. I don't ask for the BS like parties, girls, or to hangout with my friends. I have no friends to "hang out" with. I'm not even interested in that silly, immature stuff that people call cool. I am only interested in the important stuff. The problem is that they are too attached and stuck at me being a little child 5 years ago to realize that. There's more stuff to this, but I just want to know, am I alone on this helicopter parenting? Please share your stories. 🤲🏾

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u/Horror-Marketing-832 — 2 hours ago
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I was in the bathroom and i forgot my phone to goon, but i had history textbook with me so i beat my shi to benjamin franklin

u/Bumchik_247 — 16 hours ago