u/its_mayo0

Estoy en segundo de bachillerato y tengo todas las asignaturas aprobadas menos mates en la que tengo un 4,9. Mi profesora es una cabrona la verdad y además de no hacer nada durante todo el año no me quiere decir si con un 4,9 me va a suspender o aprobar y la verdad me jodería muchísimo tener que hacer la PAU en septiembre porque tengo planes para el verano

Pero es más complicado que eso, yo tengo una discapacidad reconocida y por lo tanto derecho a adaptación en los exámenes. El centro dice "no tener acceso" a mis papeles de la discapacidad que adjuntamos a principio de curso y no se me ha dicho hasta hace dos semanas que me tendrían que haber hecho las adaptaciones y no me las han hecho. En este caso, la adaptación consiste en tener que hacer un ejercicio u apartado menos del examen y que la nota sea sobre 9 (y después pasarla a sobre 10). En fin, que me han hecho los exámenes y puesto las notas injustamente todo el año, porque es mi derecho tener estas adaptaciones y en el resto de materias no me afecta tanto pero en mates me jode muchísimo porque sé que me he esforzado mucho y hubiera aprobado si hubiera sido así.

He hablado con la coordinadora del departamento para ver si se podía hacer una revisión de los exámenes anteriores y de alguna manera compensar la injusticia pero me han dicho que no en todos los idiomas posibles 😭 y ahora estoy con un 4,9 y no sé qué hacer.

Hay alguna queja formal que pueda poner? No me parece justo que porqué ellos no hayan gestionado bien los papeles de los alumnos mi nota sea más baja de la que debería ser, pero no sé cómo podría poner la queja ni exactamente que decir

Otra pregunta es, si me suspende en la ordinaria, hay alguna manera que al reclamar pueda ir a junio? O si decide suspenderme voy a septiembre directamente?

I am a girl, 17, and I had experiences when I was a kid that I'm not sure if they're considered sexual assault.

I have to say I never considered this for years and remembered a few months ago, and I now often think about it and have doubts on whether or not it was sexual assault.

So I have a cousin my age, also a girl who would sometimes come to my house because my aunt is a hairdresser, and she would come to give me and my mother a haircut at home. I never had a good relationship with her and never really liked her, but anyway, we used to go to my room while my aunt was cutting my mother's hair or they were just talking.

While we were alone in my room (around the ages 6-9) many times she would make me take off my pants and underwear. I was uncomfortable with that and told her many times, but she kept saying it was normal because we were family and just kept telling me to do it, and I as a very shy kid I was who didn't want to trouble anyone, ended up doing it. I don't remember exactly what she did and my memories about it are kind of vague, I only remember her making me take off my underwear, spread my legs and her touching the area of my vulva, I also remember that her face was really close to my intimate area and I don't remember if she had tried to insert fingers inside me, I think so, but I can't remember properly. Again, we were both kids and I don't think she did it with any sexual intentions, but I felt really uncomfortable. I have never told anyone about this.

I remember my mother telling me a couple of years ago that our grandfather had raped her when she was a kid (I assume it happened various times because I know they used to see each other often, but I don't have any proof of this), I don't know a lot about it because my mother doesn't want to talk about it, I do know that my cousin tried to report it when she got older (years after the rape happened) and that the police did nothing about it. Because she was a victim of our grandfather I think is the reason why she did that to me, it makes sense that she would tell me "it's just a game" "it's normal because we're family" etc when that's what she was sadly told by our grandfather while he raped her.

Since I know she also suffered and I'm really sorry she had to go through that, I kind of mentally excuse her for it and make it less important for me, like I'm not the real victim and only she is because she went through worse. And also the fact that we were both kids, maybe she was just kind of mimicking some of the things our grandfather did to her because he made her believe it was normal.

I don't know if this experience is sexual assault, maybe I'm overreacting and I'm really sorry if I come off as selfish for thinking about this when she suffered the most.

I am 17 and got a CT scan done a few months ago for another medical issue and they found I have an ovarian cyst of approximately 6,6cm. I now have to go to the gynecologist in order to get a transvaginal ultrasound, and I am not diagnosed with vulvodynia, but I am unable to insert two fingers and it's extremely painful (as I am not diagnosed, I'm not sure if what I have is vulvodynia, but I'm sure I have something going on down there because my muscles don't stretch and they hurt a lot when trying to insert something). Is it possible to have an abdominal ultrasound to see the ovarian cyst instead? Can I ask for it even if I don't have vulvodynia? Unfortunately I will go to the appointment with my mother with whom I don't have a good relationship with and telling her about this issue wouldn't be good, so telling the gynecologist about it is quite a problem.

I am so scared because of it and I think I will genuinely have problems in the appointment, I don't think they will be able to fit the wand inside, and if they do, it's going to be so painful I'm going to cry during it, because as I said I can't handle two fingers and that already makes me cry. What can I do?

I am 17 and got a CT scan done a few months ago for another medical issue and they found I have an ovarian cyst of approximately 6,6cm. I now have to go to the gynecologist in order to get a transvaginal ultrasound, and I am not diagnosed with vulvodynia, but I am unable to insert two fingers and it's extremely painful (as I am not diagnosed, I'm not sure if what I have is vulvodynia, but I'm sure I have something going on down there because my muscles don't stretch and they hurt a lot when trying to insert something). Is it possible to have an abdominal ultrasound to see the ovarian cyst instead? Can I ask for it even if I don't have vulvodynia? Unfortunately I will go to the appointment with my mother with whom I don't have a good relationship with and telling her about this issue wouldn't be good, so telling the gynecologist about it is quite a problem.

I am so scared because of it and I think I will genuinely have problems in the appointment, I don't think they will be able to fit the wand inside, and if they do, it's going to be so painful I'm going to cry during it, because as I said I can't handle two fingers and that already makes me cry. What can I do?

I am 17 and got a CT scan done a few months ago for another medical issue and they found I have an ovarian cyst of approximately 6,6cm. I now have to go to the gynecologist in order to get a transvaginal ultrasound, and I am not diagnosed with vulvodynia, but I am unable to insert two fingers and it's extremely painful (as I am not diagnosed, I'm not sure if what I have is vulvodynia, but I'm sure I have something going on down there because my muscles don't stretch and they hurt a lot when trying to insert something). Is it possible to have an abdominal ultrasound to see the ovarian cyst instead? Can I ask for it even if I don't have vulvodynia? Unfortunately I will go to the appointment with my mother with whom I don't have a good relationship with and telling her about this issue wouldn't be good, so telling the gynecologist about it is quite a problem.

I am so scared because of it and I think I will genuinely have problems in the appointment, I don't think they will be able to fit the wand inside, and if they do, it's going to be so painful I'm going to cry during it, because as I said I can't handle two fingers and that already makes me cry. What can I do?

So for context I'm 17, I'm wondering if I may have vulvodynia because fingering is so painful. If I only use one finger, it fits and although it's uncomfortable I think maybe I just need to get used to it. But if I try to use two fingers it's impossible, I almost never manage to make them fit, plus, it's really painful, but the thing is I feel the pain in the entrance instead of inside (I also feel pain inside but it's not that bad, while the entrance feels really painful), so I've been wondering if it's vaginismus or if this is normal? I don't think it's normal it hurt so much with two fingers. Some people describe it as a stinging sensation, but I think my pain would be described better as stretching the muscles around the entrance a lot more than they are able to, and it also have a burning sensation after, and when I go to the bathroom the following couple of times (that happens also if it's only one finger).

I have a boyfriend and when he has tried with two fingers we had to stop because I was in pain and couldn't handle two fingers for even like 15 seconds. I'm really scared of sex because I feel like it's gonna be really painful for me, and I feel like a burden for it although he's really sweet and will wait as much as needed so that I feel comfortable.

On top of that, I have an ovarian cyst and I need a transvaginal ultrasound, what is used for it looks massive and really painful. I genuinely feel like it's not going to fit and I'm going to cry in pain during the appointment, plus I must go with my mother and I really don't want to be in that situation with her.

Is there something I can do to make it better? I have heard of pelvic floor exercises, but I don't really understand how that helps loosen up the muscles around the vagina. Again, I feel the pain mostly on the entrance, I don't know if this is normal or what I can do about it :(

So for context I'm 17, I'm wondering if I may have vaginismus because fingering is so painful. If I only use one finger, it fits and although it's uncomfortable I think maybe I just need to get used to it. But if I try to use two fingers it's impossible, I almost never manage to make them fit, plus, it's really painful, but the thing is I feel the pain in the entrance instead of inside (I also have pain inside but it's not that bad, while the entrance feels really painful), so I've been wondering if it's vaginismus or if this is normal? I don't think it's normal it hurt so much with two fingers. I have a boyfriend and when he has tried with two fingers we had to stop because I was in pain. I'm really scared of sex because I feel like it's gonna be really painful for me, and I feel like a burden for it although he's really sweet and will wait as much as needed so that I feel comfortable.

On top of that, I have an ovarian cyst and I need a transvaginal ultrasound, that thing looks massive and really painful, plus I must go with my mother and I really don't want to be in that situation with her 😭

Is there something I can do to make it better? I have heard of pelvic floor exercises, but I don't really understand how that helps loosen up the muscles around the vagina. Again, I feel the pain mostly on the entrance, I don't know if this is normal or what I can do about it :(