u/hibiscus_lilac

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26[F4M] #online - Introvert looking for online flirting

Hi 👋 I'm lonely and I just someone to connect with and enjoy chatting. I just want something online, I'm not interested in meeting anyone in person. Just fun, and cute vibes. Not interested in spicy conversation with strangers.

Here's some facts about me:

• I'm from the Midwest in the US

• I'm a shift supervisor at a zoo food court

• I like going out and doing new things, but not a thrill seeker. Things like museums, parks, and restaurants.

• For hobbies I love baking. I also like crafts, thrifting, and collecting legos and kpop albums.

• Vegetarian, and Childfree. Also atheist.

So feel free to send me a message ❤️

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 3 days ago

Judgemental family

Been talking to a guy two states over and we've been talking about planning on meeting. I'm 26 and my mom and I live together (not supported by her, I pay more bills than she does). But her, and my entire family are incredibly judgemental and toxic. I just don't want everything to be awkward with my family, having everyone call me stupid and crazy. And I'd never be able to get left alone or hear the end of it. Plus I'd have to ask one of them to drop me off at the airport. I wish I had a mentally stable family who doesn't all shame each other for everything and invades privacy. I really just want to come up with some kind of lie. I absolutely know if things don't work out I'll get relentlessly bullied and called an idiot.

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 3 days ago

I don't think there's very many actual vegetarians here.

It's majority vegans who brigade because they hate vegetarians. And then rage bait meat eaters. Then maybe like 10% actual vegetarians here to talk about stuff. Then mods defending "open discussion" but they actually just created a toxic rage bait sub.

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 5 days ago
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Hi 😊 I'm a pretty introverted, and awkward person but I just want to find a fun person to vibe with and enjoy each other's company. I also would like some flirting, and someone who sticks around to chat regularly. But I also enjoy people who can have deeper/smart conversations. I'm begging you to please be a normal person and put some effort into your messages. Also only interested in people between 25-36. I'm not really into guys who are major gamers.

Here's some facts about me:

• I'm from the Midwest in the US.

• I'm a shift supervisor at a zoo food court.

• For fun I love being outside going to parks. I also really like trying new restaurants. I like baking, and crafts. I collect Legos and kpop albums.

• I'm Childfree, atheist, and vegetarian. I don't expect people to be vegetarian but I do prefer talking to child free people.

So message me if you think we'd get along!

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 7 days ago

I walk slow because my back hurts. When I'm with a group of people and everyone walks ahead and leaves me behind it makes me so sad. I just really miss my pre injury body

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 8 days ago

I work at a zoo in food and beverage and someone, or some group is calling zoos around the country with bomb threats. First one was on Saturday, and it was just terrifying because none of us knew what was happening but I think security did a great job clearing the park and making sure everyone was safe. Then me and my coworker were leading our staff of mostly minors out of the park. We thought there was a shooter or something so it felt like these kids lives were in our hands. The clean up the next day was an absolute nightmare because it was like the building was frozen in time with everything left how it was mid rush. Now it happened again today, this morning. It's scary because even though whoever it is hasn't acted yet who knows if they'll actually do it. Because obviously they're not all there. It's a scary time but I love my job and I don't want to leave it.

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 9 days ago

I work at a zoo in food and beverage and someone, or some group is calling zoos around the country with bomb threats. First one was on Saturday, and it was just terrifying because none of us knew what was happening but I think security did a great job clearing the park and making sure everyone was safe. Then me and my coworker were leading our staff of mostly minors out of the park. We thought there was a shooter or something so it felt like these kids lives were in our hands. The clean up the next day was an absolute nightmare because it was like the building was frozen in time with everything left how it was mid rush. Now it happened again today, this morning. It's scary because even though whoever it is hasn't acted yet who knows if they'll actually do it. Because obviously they're not all there. It's a scary time but I love my job and I don't want to leave it.

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 9 days ago

Am I the only one who just doesn't see the point? I'm a blunt person in general so if someone asks I just directly say that I do not want children. I just don't understand the need to skirt around with things like "well it's not in our plans right now, or maybe someday in the future." I also don't understand the need to come up with witty snarky responses like just say no and move on. The planet isn't an HR department and it's ok to be direct with people.

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 12 days ago
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Hi 😊 I'm a pretty introverted, and awkward person but I just want to find a fun person to vibe with and enjoy each other's company. I also would like some flirting, and someone who sticks around to chat regularly. But I also enjoy people who can have deeper/smart conversations. I'm begging you to please be a normal person and put some effort into your messages. Also only interested in people between 25-36.

Here's some facts about me:

• I'm from the Midwest in the US.

• I'm a shift supervisor at a zoo food court.

• For fun I love being outside going to parks. I also really like trying new restaurants. I like baking, and crafts. I collect Legos and kpop albums.

• I'm Childfree, atheist, and vegetarian. I don't expect people to be vegetarian but I do prefer talking to child free people.

So message me if you think we'd get along!

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u/hibiscus_lilac — 16 days ago