u/hey_its_ghost57

Hi, my name is Ghost. I’m 18, 19 soon. I’ve known I was on the aroace spectrum since I was aorund 13, but I’m apparently more aroace than I thought, since I’ve never actually had a crush on anyone nor felt sexual attraction to them. As for where I fall, I’m ambivalent to both sex and romance, only wanting them under very specific circumstances. I’m also lesbian, if that matters.

I don’t know. I just feel so alone. My friends tell me how they love their partners and I just feel like I’m missing out on something crucial. Although I am aroace, I still yearn for romance and sex, just with the right person. I’m currently indifferent to either, but I still feel like I’m missing something special. I want to make gifts for my girlfriend, I want to go on dates, I want to hold her hand, I want to kiss, I want to lose my virginity.

Like yes, I can satisfy myself sexually but I still feel as though I’m missing part of the experience that so many ppl go crazy out. I feel like my friends are getting partners and having sex and I’m being left behind. I’m gonna be 20 next year and I’m worried I’ll always be alone, still with no girlfriend and still a virgin.

How to deal with this loneliness? A QPR? The last one I attempted to be in was with a person that pushed my boundaries way too soon.

Is being alone, just reading stories of girl love and fanfiction, daydreaming for what could potentially come one day if the chances are right, is that all I have to look forward to as an aroace person?

How to deal with the emptiness that comes with being aroace?

Hi, my name is Ghost! I’m 18, going to be 19 in June. I’m lesbian and searching for another lesbian to be with. I’m nonbinay but very feminine presenting as I’m a femme lesbian, and I don’t mind being called girlfriend. I use they/she pronouns. I’m femme4all but have a slight preference for femmes. but butches n studs are still welcome.

I’m in college full time to be an elementary education teacher, I’m employed part time currently, starting a full time job soon hopefully. I’m saving up for a car and getting my license this summer. I have my permit as of rn. I live in Arizona. I’m open for a long distance relationship.

I’m interested in many things, such as drawing, reading, writing, painting, baking, coloring, music. My favorite music artist is Mitski and my favorite band is Pierce the Veil. I’m very into Splatoon 3, Stardew Valley, Puella Madoka Magica (+ other animes and manga), alternative music, alternative fashion, horror media, cats, and cute things.

It takes a bit for me to warm up before I decide if I want to date someone, and a little bit longer to get “intimate” with someone (if you get what I mean.) I just want to be sure before jumping in. I’m a very affectionate person, and I love chatting about my interests and hearing about other people’s interests too.

DMs are open. Please send kitty to my dms before your message so I know you read the full thing. :3

Hi, my name is Ghost! I’m 18, going to be 19 in June. I’m lesbian and searching for another sapphic girl to be with. I’m nonbinay but very feminine presenting as I’m a femme lesbian, and I don’t mind being called girlfriend. I use they/she pronouns. I’m fem4fem mainly, but masculine people are also welcome.

I’m in college full time to be an elementary education teacher, I’m employed part time currently, starting a full time job in August. I’m saving up for a car and getting my license this summer. I live in Arizona.

I’m interested in many things, such as drawing, reading, writing, painting, baking, coloring, music. My favorite music artist is Mitski and my favorite band is Pierce the Veil. I’m very into Splatoon 3, Stardew Valley, Puella Madoka Magica (+ other animes and manga), alternative music, alternative fashion, horror media, cats, and cute things.

It takes a bit for me to warm up before I decide if I want to date someone, and a little bit longer to get “intimate” with someone (if you get what I mean.) I just want to be sure before jumping in. I’m a very affectionate person, and I love chatting about my interests and hearing about other people’s interests too.

DMs are open. Please send kitty to my dms before your message so I know you read the full thing. :3