“I’m not gay but I would want a gf to try it out”.. women are not toys.. as a woman to say that, that’s gross. Us lesbians are not toys, not an experiment. Well I’m not an experiment or a toy, I’ve fought so hard to get to where I am as a lesbian, so for another woman to see my sexual orientation as “fun”, “experiment”,etc. I’m not with that!
Which girl group is on top of your list? Like your #1 group.. who you listen to the most, watch the most,etc.
I stan 11 girl groups and I cannot choose lol. I was going to say something else but I don’t know if it’s allowed lol.
The bookmarks were the start of this addiction lol. I could not find some of the diamonds to my wolf one but if I do, I will finish it. I had the diamonds in bags but I had to move everything out of my room so things got misplaced.
Which girl groups do you stan? I stan Aespa, Blackpink, Itzy, KIOF, Twice, Red Velvet, Le Sserafim, I-dle, Katseye, Ive, and Babymonster. I’m trying to stan Meovv, Kep1er, Illit.. I’m looking into KiiiKiii. Any recommendations?
I am a femme lesbian, been a lesbian all of my life. I have been single for almost 4 years. I do want to put myself out there again but I’m so scared. I believe that I won’t find a woman who will be into me, who will love me, be understanding and patient,etc. so I’m like stuck. Anyway.. I am femme4femme, that makes it difficult too lol.
I reconnected with a trans woman in January 2026 and we made it official 3 days later. We’ve known each other for almost 3 years. I think I do have ROCD but I’m not sure. She is not on HRT and she hasn’t had the surgery which is okay with me but the thoughts like “she is trans, am I really okay with that”, “she has male anatomy, can I really do that”,etc. I say I’m okay with it but those thoughts keep popping up. I don’t mean to be TMI or anything but I can imagine her as she is when I am in the mood but when I pleasure myself, my mind goes somewhere else. I want to fantasize about her as she is. It makes me upset, I cry because this is the most safe, calm, healthy relationship I’ve been in and I’m really into her. We talk about our future together a lot! Her and I are in the same situations which makes it difficult but we’re willing to fight against it. But yea.. I just wanted to express how I was feeling, maybe it just takes time to get used to it because growing up there was no trans representation. I was only seeing cis women, I was around only cis women, and I had crushes on cis women. I didn’t see a trans woman until I was in my late teens or early adulthood, I didn’t meet a trans woman until I was 23, I didn’t meet her until I was 24. Maybe it just takes time to adjust and get to used to everything.. maybe
In June 2023 I was a closeted lesbian with a boyfriend. The boyfriend didn’t mind me talking to other people outside of the relationship, I was looking for women to talk to. I went on the app Taimi, I matched with a trans woman and we started talking. The next day, the boyfriend broke up with me but not because of her. So I continued to talk to the woman and we were getting to know each other, switched off of Taimi and onto another app to talk. I was scared to date her because I was still in the closet. In February 2024 we stopped talking, a few months later we talked and she told me that she found someone and was talking to that person, I felt a type of way and she told me that person would yell at her, I got so protective over her. In January 2025 she got engaged to that person, the engagement ended in July 2025. In January 2026 we reconnected and made it official 3 days later. It’s the most calm, healthy,etc. relationship I’ve been in which is strange because I’m used to chaos and stuff. We plan to get married and have kids together. She is not on HRT nor has she had the surgery due to her living situation, she might not get those until after we have kids which isn’t a problem. I imagine us together in the future.
I am a cis woman and my girlfriend is trans woman, we are both lesbians. This is our story..
In June 2023 I was a closeted lesbian with a boyfriend. The boyfriend didn’t mind me talking to other people outside of the relationship, I was looking for women to talk to. I went on the app Taimi, I matched with a trans woman and we started talking. The next day, the boyfriend broke up with me but not because of her. So I continued to talk to the woman and we were getting to know each other, switched off of Taimi and onto another app to talk. I was scared to date her because I was still in the closet. In February 2024 we stopped talking, a few months later we talked and she told me that she found someone and was talking to that person, I felt a type of way and she told me that person would yell at her, I got so protective over her. In January 2025 she got engaged to that person, the engagement ended in July 2025. In January 2026 we reconnected and made it official 3 days later. It’s the most calm, healthy,etc. relationship I’ve been in which is strange because I’m used to chaos and stuff. We plan to get married and have kids together. She is not on HRT nor has she had the surgery due to her living situation, she might not get those until after we have kids which isn’t a problem. I imagine us together in the future a lot!