u/exlodeddiper

Hi all! I'm a woman, and I've started seeing this guy with alot less sexual experience than me (which isn'ta problem at all!). We are seeing each other soon, and every time we've had sex, he hasn't gone down on me, and has said it's "too soon". I really enjoy receiving head, and it helps me really get in the mood before PIV, and I'm not sure how to ask him to eat me out without seeming demanding, but I dont think I will want to have PIV sex if I don't recieve head. But I'm worried it will sound like I'm blackmailing him into giving me head, which is NOT my intention.

Are there ways I can hint to him that I want it? Hint that he could do some research before we meet without sounding too desperate? I'm not sure what to do in this situation 😕

Hi all! I'm a woman, and I've started seeing this guy with alot less sexual experience than me (which isn'ta problem at all!). We are seeing each other soon, and every time we've had sex, he hasn't gone down on me, and has said it's "too soon". I really enjoy receiving head, and it helps me really get in the mood before PIV, and I'm not sure how to ask him to eat me out without seeming demanding, but I dont think I will want to have PIV sex if I don't recieve head. But I'm worried it will sound like I'm blackmailing him into giving me head, which is NOT my intention.

Are there ways I can hint to him that I want it? Hint that he could do some research before we meet without sounding too desperate? I'm not sure what to do in this situation 😕

Hi!

I've had a suspicion of having Bipolar or Borderline, however I'm not sure how to go about getting help/a diagnosis for free/cheap. I can't really afford to go private (however I am trying to save up for it) and I am so sick and tired of ruining all of my friendships and relationships because of my mind. I'm sick of everything feeling 10000000x worse than it actually is because my mind blows it out of proportion. I relate to alot of people that speak about their experiences having Bipolar, I relate to the signs of Bipolar on medical websites, and I feel so seen when Doctors talk about Bipolar on the Internet.

I am aware that I am not diagnosed, and this could be ADHD or Autism, and I dont want to take anything away from people that have been diagnosed and are struggling. I just need some advice on what steps I can take to get help before I inevitably destroy my current relationship/friendships.