u/darknessinmyfate

I need more insight on these mixed signals please

my (25M) long distance bf (23M) is on a trip for a concert, last time he went to that same big city it was like a "religious" experience cause he comes from a small town and loved the vibe which I found "interesting"

My gut feeling this time told me to check if he's on Grindr and then I actually found him with his selfie and all his data.

His bio says he's not looking for something sexual but to connect and go out with sme to not be alone (even though he has 2 friends in that city he has seen before these days)

BUT also put in that he's a bottom, twink etc. Like why would these matter? not even everyone has these up

And go gay guys use this app for finding people to just have a causal fun time? I thought this is only for hookups??

I asked him if he met a friend or anyone but he said no and went back to his Airbnb according to him and says stuff like he misses me etc.

Length of relationship 2.5 years, 2 people involved

TLDR: bf on Grindr saying not looking for sexual stuff but Grindr is a hook up mainly also adding all sex relevant data

my long distance bf is on a trip for a concert, last time he went to that same big city it was like a "religious" experience cause he comes from a small town and loved the vibe which I found "interesting"

My gut feeling this time told me to check if he's on Grindr and then I actually found him with his selfie and all his data.

His bio says he's not looking for something sexual but to connect and go out with sme to not be alone (even though he has 2 friends in that city he has seen before these days)

BUT also put in that he's a bottom, twink etc. Like why would these matter? not even everyone has these up

And go gay guys use this app for finding people to just have a causal fun time? I thought this is only for hookups??

I asked him if he met a friend or anyone but he said no and went back to his Airbnb according to him and says stuff like he misses me etc.

my long distance bf is on a trip for a concert, last time he went to that same big city it was like a "religious" experience cause he comes from a small town and loved the vibe which I found "interesting"

My gut feeling this time told me to check if he's on Grindr and then I actually found him with his selfie and all his data.

His bio says he's not looking for something sexual but to connect and go out with sme to not be alone (even though he has 2 friends in that city he has seen before these days)

BUT also put in that he's a bottom, twink etc. Like why would these matter? not even everyone has these up

And go gay guys use this app for finding people to just have a causal fun time? I thought this is only for hookups??

I asked him if he met a friend or anyone but he said no and went back to his Airbnb according to him and says stuff like he misses me etc.