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We’ve been together for 8 years, and she has been a youth staff member for 6 years. I don’t know if it’s because she’s getting older.

How exhausting is your job, really? Do you truly lose your social battery because of your job? Or should I already be afraid that she has someone else? Am I just being paranoid?

Because I keep reading here that many cruise crew members end up having partners when they get on the ship, whether the person is unattractive or attractive.

Should I leave my girlfriend already, or am I just overthinking? Though she does still chat with me every day, she can no longer do video calls because she says mobile data is expensive and she gets sleepy.

We’ve been together for 8 years, and she has been a youth staff member for 6 years. I don’t know if it’s because she’s getting older.

How exhausting is your job, really? Do you truly lose your social battery because of your job? Or should I already be afraid that she has someone else? Am I just being paranoid?

Because I keep reading here that many cruise crew members end up having partners when they get on the ship, whether the person is unattractive or attractive.

Should I leave my girlfriend already, or am I just overthinking? Though she does still chat with me every day, she can no longer do video calls because she says mobile data is expensive and she gets sleepy.

8 years na kami and 6 years na siya na youth staff. Hindi ko alam kung dahil ba tumanda na siya.
Gaano ka totoo na nakakapagod ang trabaho niyo? Talaga ba na wala na kayo social battery sa ka ldr niyo? Or dapat na ba ako matakot na meron na siya iba? Praning ba ako ? Kakabasa kasi dito sabi lahat ng nag cruise crew meron nagiging partner pag dating sa ship mapa panget man at maganda
Hiwalayan ko na ba ang gf ko or praning lang ako? Though every day nag chat naman siya pero hindi na siya nakakapag video call dahil sayang daw ang load at matutulog na siya. Pls give me advice and respect my question.

I’m having a hard time moving on. I feel like I’m dying in pain. My ex just told me “i love you” last night then she message me the next day that “Ayuko nararamdaman ito, pero masaya ka pa ba sa relationship na ito?” “I need space” then she message my mom and my sister na she can’t handle me anymore and that she decided to break up with me. That she loves my family like her own. Ang bilis ng pangyayari di ko matangap. Para ako na ambush. 8 years na kami di ako makapaniwala na she left me thru chat lang.

Bakit mas bata or bakit mas matanda?

Pag mag isa ka ba na kumakain tingin ng tao malungkot ka? Tapos gcash lang at card ang dala mo tapos nakalagay sa counter “cash only”. 🫠

Hangan ilan taon nag wowork ang taga cruise-ship? Paano ang financial nyo after pag hindi nyo na kaya mag work? Tyaka napansin ko puro bata na ang mga nagaapply sa cruise ship.

8 years na kami ng partner ko pero wala pa rin siya masyado ipon kasi napupunta lang sa parents niya halos lahat ng kinikita niya tapos super shoppaholic pa siya. 6 years na siya na nag ofw pero napansin ko pag uuwi siya sa pinas ako pa madalas ang gumagastos . Tapos puro instagram nya puro gastos nakikita ko.

Tapos sabi niya sakin na wala pa raw kami sarili bahay, parang gusto nya ako mag provide ng bahay para sakanya. Eh hindi naman siya nakikipagtulungan sa financial. Ako pa nga nagbabayad ng insurance niya. Dapat na ba ako tumakbo? Kinakabahan kasi ako pag nag stop na sya mag work in case lang. Ako magiging solo provider? Eh hindi na rin ganun kalakas business ko. Sa economy ngayon.

Wala pa kasi ako sariling bahay. Pero nakikita ko mga friends ko lahat me sarili ng house and not rented.

Is it true that if it is sea day you are really busy and can’t even touch your phone? My gf is a youth staff 🫣

Si chatgpt na lang lagi ko kausap pero ngayon parang di na rin siya nagpapadala agree sakin. Nasisira na ata ang ulo ko.