(i’ll try keep this story short, sorry for my bad english)
im a adult ish teenager, so having unprotected sex is EXTREMELY risky for me. however there are a lot of problems i face with protection so i told my boyfriend to ditch the protection.
does anyone on this subreddit have unprotected sex and is fine? does anyone know if it’s risky? please tell me
i’m kinda young (ish, adult young)
i just wanted to know how risky unprotected sex is? my boyfriend struggles to get it in with a condom on (it’s his size and his precum can be used as lube) and my friends all do it without condoms (or any protection) and it’s fine.
does anyone know if i do it will i be okay? do you guys have any experiences without condoms and still no pregnancy scares?
(This is so stupid, sorry for bad english i have dyslexia)
i know this doesn’t have correlation to the subreddit as much. (except us being teenagers ish)
basically me and my bf fight ALL the time because he believes that girls and guys can’t be friends with a girl in a relationship (or single) because the guy friend will wait until she’s single or has some problems to try and have sex with her. but the thing is we are kinda teen adults and that’s what adult in their 20s think (im not sure if teenage boys think that)
he uses shitty examples, i don’t really have examples but i want everyone to PLEASE be honest.
please reply if you see this, im always having a debate and PLEASE be honest. everyone’s opinion matters on this 🙏🏽
I’ve been trying to have sex but my body will not allow anything inside me. NOT even fingers. i goon with vibrators. my bf can’t get his fingers in no matter how wet i am.
please reply if you see this, i really need a strangers opinion. (also if my english is bad please ignore it, im dyslexic)
i’ll try keep this story short:
basically nearly 2 years ago i met this guy (let’s call him H) who obviously wanted to get in a relationship with me, however i was in a toxic relationship and needed some space but people kept pushing me to get with H so i said yes, but ended it off later. we also tried being FWB but it didn’t work out.
i tried to reconnect with H after this when i moved on from my toxic relationship, but he would ghost me, leave me on delivered, etc, so i gave up and decided to be friends with him. H would try flirt with me but i would never say anything back. H would also soft launch his friend so i could date him (this happened for like a year) but it would always bad talk his friend so obviously i had a bad perspective of his friend.
around september 2025-january 2026 i actually started talking to his friend and turns out what H said about his friend was very wrong, he was actually a very sweet guy and we ended up getting with each other early this year. however H found out and was like “oh…” and started acting weird around us.
H also made a joke saying he’d have sex with me (keep in mind they close at one point, just not close anymore) and his friend (now my boyfriend) did not like this and went on a rant saying he’d never do this to H (which physically killed me) and i can’t let my boyfriend meet any of my old friends because they might be like “oh weren’t you H’s friend? didn’t you like H?” or something. one of my friends said not to tell him because me and H weren’t really anything but i still liked H i just dont know what to do.
if u see this please give your opinion 😭😭!!! i’m so desperate!!
EDIT-
i’m not THAT young, i’m a early adult, i’ve been indoctrinated with a bunch of purity culture by a single parent hence why i’m acting like this.