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I’m trying to get an outside perspective on a situation with a girl I know.

We have mutual friends but we’re not really in the same core friend group. Her roommate is actually one of my close friends. Over the past couple months we started texting more. She would send me Instagram reels that reminded her of me, food pics, and sometimes photos from trips she was on. She initiated a decent amount of the conversations too.

We’ve mostly only seen each other in group settings before, but we’ve talked a lot there and even did a couple TikTok dances together. She’s also remembered small details about me before which made me feel like she was paying attention.

Because of that, I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk one day. She said she was down, but then also asked something like “just to clarify this is as friends right?” I said yes.

When we actually met up she said she couldn’t really walk much because she wasn’t feeling great that day, so we just sat and talked instead. We ended up talking for about 2 hours and 45 minutes about all kinds of things (travel, work, school, food, random life stuff). I eventually ended the hangout because I had to go.

For context, this was the first time we’ve hung out one-on-one. Before that it was always in group settings.

One small thing I noticed is she showed up looking pretty put together (makeup, nice clothes), but I’m not sure if that’s just how she normally dresses.

So my question is: did I likely misread the earlier signals and she just sees me as a friend, or does this situation still seem ambiguous?

I’m trying to get an outside perspective on a situation with a girl I know.

We have mutual friends but we’re not really in the same core friend group. Her roommate is actually one of my close friends. Over the past couple months we started texting more. She would send me Instagram reels that reminded her of me, food pics, and sometimes photos from trips she was on. She initiated a decent amount of the conversations too.

We’ve mostly only seen each other in group settings before, but we’ve talked a lot there and even did a couple TikTok dances together. She’s also remembered small details about me before which made me feel like she was paying attention.

Because of that, I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk one day. She said she was down, but then also asked something like “just to clarify this is as friends right?” I said yes.

When we actually met up she said she couldn’t really walk much because she wasn’t feeling great that day, so we just sat and talked instead. We ended up talking for about 2 hours and 45 minutes about all kinds of things (travel, work, school, food, random life stuff). I eventually ended the hangout because I had to go.

For context, this was the first time we’ve hung out one-on-one. Before that it was always in group settings.

One small thing I noticed is she showed up looking pretty put together (makeup, nice clothes), but I’m not sure if that’s just how she normally dresses.

So my question is: did I likely misread the earlier signals and she just sees me as a friend, or does this situation still seem ambiguous?

I’m trying to get an outside perspective on a situation with a girl I know.

We have mutual friends but we’re not really in the same core friend group. Her roommate is actually one of my close friends. Over the past couple months we started texting more. She would send me Instagram reels that reminded her of me, food pics, and sometimes photos from trips she was on. She initiated a decent amount of the conversations too.

We’ve mostly only seen each other in group settings before, but we’ve talked a lot there and even did a couple TikTok dances together. She’s also remembered small details about me before which made me feel like she was paying attention.

Because of that, I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk one day. She said she was down, but then also asked something like “just to clarify this is as friends right?” I said yes.

When we actually met up she said she couldn’t really walk much because she wasn’t feeling great that day, so we just sat and talked instead. We ended up talking for about 2 hours and 45 minutes about all kinds of things (travel, work, school, food, random life stuff). I eventually ended the hangout because I had to go.

For context, this was the first time we’ve hung out one-on-one. Before that it was always in group settings.

One small thing I noticed is she showed up looking pretty put together (makeup, nice clothes), but I’m not sure if that’s just how she normally dresses.

So my question is: did I likely misread the earlier signals and she just sees me as a friend, or does this situation still seem ambiguous?