When I first started getting into subliminals I'd say I was pretty consistent listening to my playlist before bed. But ever since I came home from college I've been slacking a bit. I'll listen to my playlist every other day or every 2 days. How bad does non-consistency mess up results?
Please y'all the people who are not over there ex can you please spare us and not get on dating apps like... Lately I feel like people forget that your actions affect others that seem to be a forgotten proverb. For once do not be selfish and do not let someone fall for you just so you can cry about your ex again. Amen.
I got this Ideal Tuesday 1975 doll from a yard sale and I kinda regret it. But I do see the potential cause the blonde and brown hair is so cute. But the thing that's throwing me off the most is the big bald spots her bangs arent thick enough to spread across and cover the bald spots. Does anyone have any idea of what I can do?
I was thinking about it today but I really have come a long way with my natural hair journey I'll keep it brief since I have a point I want to get across.
Elementary school- Had relaxed hair or would constantly have my sister or mom straighten my hair. Or my hair was in braids.
Middle school- Mostly did braids, did the big chop, and eventually in 8th grade I went natural.
Highschool- Completely stopped doing braids and was 100% natural.
When I finally went natural I literally hated my hair I was so jealous of girls with longer hair who could do so many hairstyles and I wanted to dye my hair so bad but I felt like since I have curls my hair will literally be ruined if I even try. I used to genuinely get so mad with my 4c. Now that I am an adult there are soooo many things I can do with 4c hair you just need time and patience AND you need to accept the fact that it's not always gonna look like inspo pic from Pinterest.
I am so happy I went natural I think it really suits me and we need to stop the narrative that there's nothing you can do with 4c hair or coily hair. Like no offense but...try a bit harder.
I'm assuming this is all the single girls idk if Jessi is with Marciano or whatever but I assumed they are just messing around but not together.
I was randomly thinking about love island while scrolling through this subreddit and I was like wow I wonder how these girls would do on love island. I know Jessi and Taylor would be on the older side of love island but let's just imagine in this scenario they cast some older guys as well.
Why do I low-key feel like Taylor would be so entertaining on love island cause she would be so unhinged. And before anyone says I know most of these women should focus on themselves and not worrying about dating but this is just an imaginary situation so yk 🤷🏾♀️
Anyways what are y'all thoughts?
Today I tried going to jewelry stores to see if they can identify the stones of the necklace. They said it's definitely not a diamond and one said maybe Topaz. Anyways the stone anymore doesn't matter I am just interested in the brand. I tried to Google Lens the last photo but nothing came up.
*just to preface I am not saying all this to brag I am just adding context
My friends always tell me how nice the clothes in my closet are and how I should wear them more. I have a lot of clothes but yet I tend to wear track suits and sweatpants a lot. I know I could create really nice outfits but I just don't. Same with jewelry I have so much jewelry yet I rarely wear it.
In my head I do not feel like I live a life worthy of my nice clothes and though people tell me I can just wear a nice outfit to class or just go out and about I cannot justify that in my head. To me getting all dolled up to go somewhere like class is a waste of time for me. And the thing I do like dressing up but I have a genuine reason to do so. Sometimes I think about how I could be so cool and be the girl with such unique style but yet I just don't. I see girls who are committed to their aesthetic and I admire that. But when it comes to myself I cannot get myself to put consistent effort unless I feel like the occasion warrants it.
The way I can describe the way my mind works is that going to class is 1 point the environment is not special or that interesting. Sweats and track suits are 1-2 points so they are low effort and not special. Some of my clothes and jewelry are like 2+ points some even like 4 points so there's a mismatch.
Anyways I just feel like there wasted potential in my in terms of fashion but idk
I am not gonna lie I was kinda skeptical about subliminals but I thought to myself there's no harm in trying I'll just listen to them when I'm about to fall asleep. I made a playlist with subliminals that are specifically wlw or lgbt friendly about attracting a gf.
What I have noticed is that I am getting more consistent likes on Hinge which is usually the dating app I get the least traction on. Usually when I get a like it takes like months for another one to roll in but I've gotten 3 matches within 2 weeks which is new for me. the first 2 didn't work out but I'm currently talking to another girl rn.
I am very happy!! I'm gonna continue to listen to subs.
*This is a rant I am not looking for advice just people who can relate.
Do y'all ever yearn for different friends. I have this friend group and I have fun with them but I am not happy with it. I feel like they're just such homebodies and I feel like all we do is hang out at someone's dorm. Every once in a while we will go out but sometimes I don't even wanna ask to go somewhere that requires driving because the people in my group who have their car on campus always complain about driving.
I feel like my friends are always busy or we are doing the same hang outs. And pls don't take this the wrong way but a lot of them struggle with money so it feels like we are very limited in what we can do. Sometimes I wanna do an activity that requires a bit of money something different from what we usually do but it always ends up not happening.
I am really just yearning for a group of girlfriends who are down for random adventures, like to party, and have a bit of money to spend. I know the obvious answer is make more friends believe me I am trying it's just hard meeting people I actually want to befriend.
I've been kinda getting into subliminals lately nothing crazy just ones about attracting romance. I want to interact with the subliminal community on reddit but my only issue is that they treat people with limiting belief so harshly and just tell you to accept that whatever you want is already yours. I generally get what they're tryna do but I feel like there are so many people who have limiting belief due to life in general and just telling them to just believe is not that helpful.
Like me personally I may have a lot of limiting beliefs because genuinely I have been disappointed so much in life despite being hopeful. There have been times when I go into something confident and I do not get my desired outcome. I do believe that no matter I will get the things I want but sometimes I have doubts.
Anyways does anyone listen to subliminals I would love to talk about them esp if you have limiting beliefs like me.
I've found some on twitter but it's not much. I don't know where else to look. if anyone has any recommendations I'd greatly appreciate it 🙏🏾