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You're like standing there with your massive schlong, others take notice. what happens next?

For context. Me (37 M, live at my own house, but visit frequently because they are aging rapidly). Husband(70M) is retired for some years now and chooses not to do anything but sit in front of the tv or call a friend occasionally. No history of sexual or physical violence in the family. At least unknown to me.

He does not like going outside, not even for daily sunlight. Mother has been retired for two years now, but her behavior hasn't changed from some 10 years ago. She likes to present to others that all is well at all times, and never lets anyone get too close to her or the family, despite friends and acquaintances seemingly wanting to help, she appears aloof or unable to truly enjoy the company of her lifelong friends, but can make conversation to pass the time when guests are over (rare). She chooses to take care of him , putting tablets on his plate, and cooking. instead of putting him in a nursing home, which due to his declining mental state, a stroke that happened some years ago, and dementia, is a terrible idea. We both know he should be in aged care but she knows this for some years now.

When she comes back from getting the groceries, the moment she walks in the door she has to complain about something, it's an impulse or an anger or need for control of herself and others. Usually she picks on her husband(70M) for something he didnt do correctly(if he even did something) and berates him in a verbal barrage and shouting/screaming match, which he is happy to just be mostly passive in as he considers himself enlightened(He believes he lived a good life and is ready to be old, I can't say the same about her. unsure.) This happens every other day like clockwork. It's like she doesn't like the peace and quiet when she walks in and it's just us two. This goes on for an hour or so. It's an anger or release for her. My question is how common is this, how does it change, and did she learn it from others in her time that it was just normal? back inn the 60s? She wishes to just continue to be like this because it's familiar?

For me it was A24's undertone. Yes its a technical marvel in audio design, but visually fell flat. Felt like it was too low budget to be entertaining. I surprisingly liked their "civil war" film and most of their horrors, including the really wacky ones but with undertone.. I just wasn't' into it as much as I thought I would be. Felt like something that could have been made a decade ago. There was nothing much fun to look at, between shades of grey and oversaturated blue scenes. It dragged in the beginning, middle and the end wasn't all that great. dunno it just failed to hook. 2026 might be a great year for film still, but the ones I keep seeing keep missing the mark