r/bigdickproblems

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now (both gay) and was curious how other members of the sub are relationship-wise?

I lost my virginity last year and my ex was SUPER tight. So tight it felt like my dick was being strangled and I couldn't cum.

Except in a few cases such as doggie or her laying on her side.

Is this me only? Or what?

High waisted trousers are starting to make a come back. For reference, I'm definitely a grower but I also have huge nuts. Naturally, high waisted pants are gonna hug your groin a little bit. I try to wear some tight briefs, and I still feel like I am giving the entire world a show. Anyone got a solution for this? Am I gonna have to wear 3 layers of underwear?

Realized I’ve never been deepthroated before. No girl has ever been able to go past half my shaft. Also, doggystyle (my favorite) is basically a no go since I’ve had complaints that their stomach hurt after I went too hard or deep. I can never go balls deep with alot of force.

I in fact have a few stories that I would like to share, and yes every story is true…

My wife and I were virgins when we met. We actually waited until our wedding day(Married very young). I remember us trying for the first time and it not fitting…Like not even close. It worried the both of us because we thought that she had vaginismus. We also didn’t know my size in comparison to the rest of the population was exponentially larger than average at the time. In fact I thought my size was just above average.

Anyway, we made an appointment to see her OB and she does a series of test to see if she has vaginismus. To the doctor’s surprise she was completely normal. She even said,

“I don’t know what your husband’s size is, but you have plenty of room for him.”

My wife then said,

“Well if I am fine, then it is my husband’s size. Sweetheart you’re huge.”

That made the OB laugh. Little did she know she was in for a surprise…

Before the appointment my wife bought a pack of dilators ranging in sizes. The largest one was 7.5’ in length and 5.5’ around. When she takes it out of her purse to show the OB the doctor said,

“My goodness dear you don’t need all of that to help you dilate.”

I remember the OB grabbing it and measuring it between her palms like it was a baton. My face turned flush. It was the first time I realized that I am an anomaly. My wife then said,

“He is longer and thicker than this. It is beautiful look at, but my word it’s impossible to take.”

You should have seen the look on this poor gals face. Complete shock. While still wrapping her hands around the dilator flabbergasted,

“Wow… (pause) Bigger than this!!?”

As she is holding it up, looking at it up and down in disbelief.

“That… that is unfathomable. That is your problem right there. You are big!”

Very embarrassing, but the first time I understood that this world sets an unrealistic expectations of how big you need to be, and the first time a doctor told me I was massive.

The OB ended up giving us some lidocaine to help with the pain. We know have more experience and we manage, but “quick sessions” are not in the cards for us.

I have a few other stories as well👍.

Also, just a quick side note. The situation did give me a ton of confidence. Like I am a wrestler and a boxer so I am already a confident person, but hearing that I have a big penis from other women is a huge ego boost. For instance now I take Polaroid pictures of it and hide them around the kitchen for my wife to find. Kind of funny. 😄

since I became sexually active, I’ve noticed something kind of peculiar with women.

They all seem way more submissive after discovering that i have Big dick. They give me more attention, more messages, more replys on stories, they ignore red flags... Sometimes I take a while to reply because I’m busy and end up treating them a bit poorly, but it seems like they just overlook it.

Anyway, “big dick privilege” already happens with u guys?

also im 8x6... and english is not my first language so sorry for any english errors

This post is just to vent.

I’ve been married to the love of my life for 10 years. We’re very happy, we have kids, and overall our marriage is really strong and positive.

However, over the past few years, our sex life has changed a lot, and the frequency has dropped significantly. I know this happens in many long-term relationships, especially with busy lifestyles, but in our case there’s also a physical factor involved.

My wife is much smaller than me (almost 50cm shorter), and from early on she would sometimes feel discomfort after sex. Over time, this became more of an issue for her, regardless of foreplay or other factors. A few years ago, she opened up and told me that we needed to reduce how often we have sex because she couldn’t keep dealing with the discomfort afterward. I understood and respected that, so we adjusted.

We’re both in our early 30s, we take care of ourselves and are both very fit (both would be considered attractive by most standards) and we genuinely love each other. Our relationship is strong, but this is one area that’s been difficult, and I just needed a place to get it off my chest.

Not really looking for advice, just needed to share, thank you guys :)

So when I was younger going through puberty I measured my penis and it was around 4 inches.

And after that, not sure if it was from porn brain because I did used to watch it, but I always thought I was average maybe at best.

I recently measured using my iPhone 11, and discovered I’m over 6+ inches to my absolute disbelief.

I also tried that toilet paper roll trick and I think it means I am thicker than 5. (not sure which brand TP it is)

The problem I’m having is just my brain catching up to reality, i know this might sound stupid but it’s kind of scary-when you’ve thought something your whole life and then it’s just instantaneously proven wrong.

I guess I’m asking, how do I come to terms with this not so rude awakening? I honestly can’t believe it and my brain is struggling to catch up and process reality.

Hey what condoms should i get i know im massive but i dont know which one to use?

Im 8.5 inches x 6.5 inches.

i’m question to you guys is has anyone. just wanted to sleep with you before because they heard about your size and they wanted to try it out? and if so what has been the craziest person like has a friends gf or like someone crazy asked? jus curious if this happens?

Airport security check in. Round 2.

*something showing in pocket*

Frisks... Nothing

*Need further search, please come to a separate area for further search*

Frisks harder on right side groin = Nothing

Frisks harder on left side groin = Penis.

Continues to frisk over the top of my penis multiple times in confusion.

Looks confused, follows on with other screenings.

Get the go ahead a few minutes later to leave.

I feel violated.

What the fuck was that?

You're like standing there with your massive schlong, others take notice. what happens next?

So wife asked me if I can go more rounds because of my size, which I’m pretty sure is absolutely not true to a degree.

After each ejac I’m a little smaller and a bit softer, it’s kinda like wearing out an eraser. I told her after 2 times honestly I’m just ramming a 1/4 Chub in and hoping for the best😗🤙

Any one else have to clear up any weird misunderstandings?

I’ve also heard bigger size more cum argument too .

So im 7 inches maybe a little over, but idk if its cuz maybe my fupa is bigger than most or something but my dick looks small from the top like 6 inches at best maybe a little smaller but I look my measured size from the bottom?

Anyone else got this issue?

Mine is I’d make my glans smaller so I could get a proper blowjob. What’s yours?

My thoughts are a lil scrambled here so I apologise if this doesn't sound like the most coherent post!

Most of my previous partners were smaller in dick size- Never had any problems or complaints with them because the sex was always still good!

However, I recently encountered two guys who were both well-endowed. One was 8inches and the other was 7 inches.

I had met with the 7in person first, he was careful so it was slow and it hurt a lil but it was a good experience overall. I could cum, orgasm all of it! It hit all the diff spots and made me hit the holy trio!

My 8 incher experience was more of a drunken hookup, he was a lil rough and I distinctly remember it hurting quite a bit cause of his size and girth.

The next time I slept with someone smaller (still 7 inches) I felt like I couldn't feel the point he was hitting that I felt the first time I tried a Bigger dick. It felt good and he was hitting another deeper spot... but I liked how it felt before? I'm not sure if this makes any sense.

He was hitting a deeper spot than before this time and the sexual peak felt less satisfying than before!

Could this possibly just be like a one-time (two-time*) thing? Or maybe I was extra aroused in this situation and it felt deeper? ( but if I was more aroused it should've still felt good - tested this out twice, still felt the same disappointment)

Or... could I have fkd up my "tightness" or "depth"?

Has anyone ever felt this before or has a partner talked to you about this?

I do still wanna enjoy piv sex regardless of the size and I also want to feel good for the other person as well!

Fyi; never given birth/ gotten pregnant/ no surgeries etc!

Tldr: I tried bigger dicks for the first time, 7 inches felt less good/different after 8 inches. Any explanations? Can I make it feel good again?