u/angelsinsect

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Trying to accept the skin I’m in. Any advice?

I’m at a healthy weight so I have no good excuse not to learn to accept my body. I want to be strong enough to live well when I’m older. And I’ve been 30 lbs lighter and still not been happy with how it looks. So losing weight will not fix my problem.

I feel like having EDS my skin looks different. I ask myself why does my stomach look so unsmooth and lumpy? I see women bigger than me and wish my skin looked like theirs so it’s not a size thing. Which also means it’s out of my hands. I can’t change my skin.

It also doesn’t help that it hurts all the time. My skin and joints that is. I hear people say “accept your body because it functions and takes care of you” and I don’t feel like mine does.

Does anyone have any advice on learning to accept your skin looking different than what you think others look like? Or what you wish it looked like?

Thanks in advance.

u/angelsinsect — 14 hours ago

What’s my next read? Your pick.

Halfway through neuromancer and the crossing, just got tired of them for a while. 100 or so pages into infinite jest. 50 pages into perdido street station. Need some motivation.

Yes I read all the pretty horses.

u/angelsinsect — 1 day ago

Looking for some specific folktronica or American folk with electronic dance drums and synths

Saw avett brothers with Mike Patton tonight. Didn’t know who either were. Loved Satan Pulls the Strings (Avett Brothers) and their cover of Retrovertigo (Mr. Bungle).

I love alt rock especially when it incorporates analog instruments and electronic instruments. For example Magdalena bay with analog drums and electronic drums in the same song. Same with synths and acoustic guitar. Love that shit.

That being said the folktronica recs I’m seeing in searching are not dance enough for me. Too ambient or lowkey. Any American folk electronic dance music you can recommend me?

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u/angelsinsect — 1 day ago

Never knew who the avett brothers or Mike Patton were until tonight. Great show.

I’m not a big folk fan but I love alternative rock. I loved the show for what everyone is hating on it for. I loved the metal/punk/hard rock influences. I loved the (too few) synths. Wish there were more dance/techno drums and synths. Would’ve been a top show of all time for me if they incorporated more electronic instruments. It’s still up there though. Was awesome.

Satan Pulls the String was one of my favorites. Haven’t found the name of my other favorite yet. They also played easy by the commodores which was great.

Edit: the other cover I liked that they did was Retrovetigo Mr. Bungle. Wayyyy better than the recorded version.

Edit: also liked the line about the diving bell and the butterfly in “It’s Natural”

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u/angelsinsect — 1 day ago

Brands like Eileen Fisher style? I the flowy silhouettes.

23F. Looking for something nice quality (willing to pay for it too). Eileen fisher pants are too short for me (36” inseam) and the sleeves are often too short also. Looking for similar silhouettes of similar or better quality. I find brands like free people and Anthropologie to have some styles that I like but are typically poor quality. Any suggestions?

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u/angelsinsect — 2 days ago

My jiffy clothes steamer gets hot but produces no steam. If I leave it going it starts to smell like burnt plastic.

It’s old. Was a hand me down from my grandma. I don’t know about a warranty. I only ever used distilled water. My mistake may have been not emptying the reservoir after I was done. I’ve tried soaking with diluted vinegar to no avail.

Is it worth sending it in for service or should I buy a new one?

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u/angelsinsect — 3 days ago

Favorite perfumer?

I’m new to this, but my favorites right now are Alberto Morillas and Delphine Jelk.

Who else should I be looking into or learning about? Thanks in advance.

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u/angelsinsect — 3 days ago

Can you recommend me cheaper or dupe frags based on my favorite perfumes?

Favorites:
Aesop Virere‼️
Guerlain Vetiver EDT
Guerlain Allegoria Nerolia Vetiver Forte
Guerlain Allegoria Pera Granita
Guerlain Allegoria Mandarin Basilic Forte
Le Labo Gaiac 10
Le Labo Tonka 25
Le Labo Vanille 44
Le Labo Vetiver 46
Le Labo Cedrat 37
Le Labo The Noir 29

Don’t like:
Le Labo Another 13
Le Labo Baie 19
Le Labo Patchouli 24
Diptyque (any)
Byredo (any)
DS Durga Debaser
DS Durga Debaser in Bloom
Guerlain Shalimar
MFK (any)

I like GREEN, WOODY, AROMATIC fragrances. Something SUMMERY for daytime wear in hot weather. Any recs besides dossier musky Gaiac?

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u/angelsinsect — 5 days ago

Can you recommend me dupe brands (I.e. dossier) based on my favorite perfumes?

Favorites:
Aesop Virere‼️
Guerlain Vetiver EDT
Guerlain Allegoria Nerolia Vetiver Forte
Guerlain Allegoria Pera Granita
Guerlain Allegoria Mandarin Basilic Forte
Le Labo Gaiac 10
Le Labo Tonka 25
Le Labo Vanille 44
Le Labo Vetiver 46
Le Labo Cedrat 37
Le Labo The Noir 29

Don’t like:
Le Labo Another 13
Le Labo Baie 19
Le Labo Patchouli 24
Diptyque (any)
Byredo (any)
DS Durga Debaser
DS Durga Debaser in Bloom
Guerlain Shalimar
MFK (any)

I like GREEN, WOODY, AROMATIC fragrances. Something SUMMERY for daytime wear in hot weather. Any recs besides dossier musky Gaiac?

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u/angelsinsect — 5 days ago
▲ 700 r/whatisthisbug+1 crossposts

Laying in bed and felt something crawling on my arm. What is this and where tf did it come from?

u/angelsinsect — 5 days ago

What do I need to read from this shelf ASAP? Don’t care if I’ve already read it. I’ll read it again.

What book do you implore me to (re)read?

u/angelsinsect — 6 days ago

I know what unisex smoky woody frags I want (Le Labo Tonka 25, the noir 29, and vetiver 46) but not freshies for day/summer. Where should I be looking?

Le Labo Jasmin 17 and Neroli 36 are nice but too floral/sweet for my liking. Bergamote 22 turns to bell pepper on my skin. I also feel like these don’t last very long.

I like woody, aromatic, citrus, and green scents. I like leafy scents like Aesop Virere. Is Guerlain vetiver EDT a good unisex summer freshie? I want something light and good for hot weather.

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u/angelsinsect — 7 days ago

I know what unisex smoky woody frags I want (Le Labo Tonka 25, the noir 29, and vetiver 46) but not freshies for day/summer. Where should I be looking?

Le Labo Jasmin 17 and Neroli 36 are nice but too floral/sweet for my liking. Bergamote 22 turns to bell pepper on my skin. I also feel like these don’t last very long.

I like woody, aromatic, citrus, and green scents. I like leafy scents like Aesop Virere. Is Guerlain vetiver EDT a good unisex summer freshie? I want something light and good for hot weather.

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u/angelsinsect — 7 days ago

Nothing crazy or out of the box of course. Crowd pleasers. Nothing too feminine. I want to know what male fragrances are widely accepted as very nice and well suited for a young man. Thanks in advance.

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u/angelsinsect — 8 days ago

Background: I’m a woman in her 20’s who likes green, woody, citrus, and musk unisex frags. I like fig and tea as well.

I sprayed Guerlain Vetiver on a paper strip and as it dried throughout the day I loved it. I went back to the store to spray some on myself and I thought yuck! I must’ve mixed up the names. 5 minutes later and I’m smelling something irresistible. 4 hours later and it’s gorgeous! Just stunning! I need it! But what the heck is up with that initial spray. There’s something in the top notes I can’t stand.

Has this happened to anyone else?

u/angelsinsect — 8 days ago
▲ 54 r/NichePerfumes+1 crossposts

Nobody seemed upset that I wasn’t buying anything and most people didn’t bother me at all. If they asked if I needed help I smiled and said no thank you and they left me alone.

I really liked
Guerlain neroli outrenoir
Guerlain vetiver
FM bigarade concentree
Armani gardenia Antigua
Armani cypres pantelleria

Didn’t like as much as I thought I would
Matiere premiere Parisian musc
VP Dear Polly
ADP Fico Di Amalfi Riserva
Armani The Yulong
Armani Figuer Eden
Armani Vetiver Dhiver
Guerlain Musc Outreblanc (didn’t try on skin)
Chanel no 19

u/angelsinsect — 8 days ago

When I click on the privacy policy button there is no option to opt out or refuse cookies, making the tracking feature unusable without accepting. Anyone else get annoyed by this?

u/angelsinsect — 9 days ago