u/ZaRyuK

▲ 4 r/bigender+1 crossposts

[M 32] What gender am I ? (M, NB, or fluid ?)

Hi.

I wanna say first that I could get wrong on some words, it's not hatred or anything, just a mix of being French (meaning lost in translation), and perhaps ignorance.

I'm a 32yo cis male, who sometimes likes to crossdress privately. I do it both for sexual purposes, but also because I just... like it. I like wearing a skirt, wearing small heels, and if I was taught about it, I would shave my body hair and put a bit of make-up. For now, only one girl friend saw me crossdress, and a few people know about it but never saw me doing it.

Last night, I joined a munch to discover a bit about myself and learn about sexuality. I spoke a lot with a trans woman during that night, told her about how I feel about myself, and I said : "Yeah, I crossdress, but I still feel like a man, I'm not going trans or anything".
And she answered with a small giggle and saying "Yeah, you're an egg.". She explained to me about the egg (showing signs of transgender but don't realize it yet), and then said "You could also be non-binary".

The non-binary stuff turned a lot in my head last night and this morning, with something else coming in the train of thought : genderfluid.

So, I'm lost here : yeah, I crossdress and like women clothes, but I also like being a man, I'm not hating myself for being born that way.

So, what am I : still a cis male, a non-binary, or a genderfluid ?

You can ask me any questions if you think it would help me answer mine.

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u/ZaRyuK — 6 days ago

[M 32] What gender am I ? (M, NB, or fluid)

Hi.

I wanna say first that I could get wrong on some words, it's not hatred or anything, just a mix of being French (meaning lost in translation), and perhaps ignorance.

I'm a 32yo cis male, who sometimes likes to crossdress privately. I do it both for sexual purposes, but also because I just... like it. I like wearing a skirt, wearing small heels, and if I was taught about it, I would shave my body hair and put a bit of make-up. For now, only one girl friend saw me crossdress, and a few people know about it but never saw me doing it.

Last night, I joined a munch to discover a bit about myself and learn about sexuality. I spoke a lot with a trans woman during that night, told her about how I feel about myself, and I said : "Yeah, I crossdress, but I still feel like a man, I'm not going trans or anything".
And she answered with a small giggle and saying "Yeah, you're an egg.". She explained to me about the egg (showing signs of transgender but don't realize it yet), and then said "You could also be non-binary".

The non-binary stuff turned a lot in my head last night and this morning, with something else coming in the train of thought : genderfluid.

So, I'm lost here : yeah, I crossdress and like women clothes, but I also like being a man, I'm not hating myself for being born that way.

So, what am I : still a cis male, a non-binary, or a genderfluid ?

You can ask me any questions if you think it would help me answer mine.

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u/ZaRyuK — 6 days ago
▲ 2 r/gender

What am I ?

Hi.

I wanna say first that I could get wrong on some words, it's not hatred or anything, just a mix of being French (meaning lost in translation), and perhaps ignorance.

I'm a 32yo cis male, who sometimes likes to crossdress privately. I do it both for sexual purposes, but also because I just... like it. I like wearing a skirt, wearing small heels, and if I learned about it, I would shave my body hair and put a bit of make-up. For now, only one girl friend saw me crossdress.

Last night, I joined a munch to discover a bit about myself and learn about sexuality. I spoke a lot with a trans woman during that night, told her about how I feel about myself, and I said : "Yeah, I crossdress, but I still feel like a man, I'm not going trans or anything".
And she answered with a small giggle and saying "Yeah, you're an egg.". She explained to me about the egg (showing signs of transgender but don't realize it yet), and then said "You could also be non-binary".

The non-binary stuff turned a lot in my head last night and this morning, with something else coming in the train of thought : genderfluid.

So, I'm lost here : yeah, I crossdress and like women clothes, but I also like being a man, I'm not hating myself for being born that way.

So, what am I : still a cis male, a non-binary, or a genderfluid ?

You can ask me any questions if you think it would help me answer mine.

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u/ZaRyuK — 7 days ago