AIO the Mother's Day edition. ?
Society has rules and laws that are spelled out in ink. We can all read them. They universally apply to each of us.....
Then there is your mom's rules. They aren't written out. They don't apply equally to everyone.
Your sister and your brother have different "mom rules". The cashier at the grocery store has different rules than the person bagging the groceries.
The A/C guy has different rules than the lawn guy.
This is where it gets tricky.... Don't point out that the rules are different. That is actually the #1 rule... "Don't point out the inconsistency."
And I will conclude with the obvious.... She won't write them out so you can't quote her.