u/WatugotOfficial

Everyone comes to me with their problems, and I’m always the one holding it together. But I’m tired. I want to fall apart too sometimes.

Has anyone else felt like they’re not allowed to be the one who needs support?

Curious what you think!

I see people making plans, posting about their weekends, talking about their friends… and I’m just here.

Existing. Not really part of anything.

Has anyone else felt like they’re watching life happen instead of living it?

What does that feel like for you?

It feels so much harder now than when we were kids. Everyone already has their circles, and putting yourself out there feels awkward and exhausting.

What’s been the toughest part for you?

And has anything actually worked?

I can be in a room full of people and still feel completely alone. It’s like I’m there but not really there. Conversations happen around me, but I’m not part of them.

Has anyone else experienced this weird kind of loneliness?

What helps you feel a little less invisible?

I know I should rest and everyone does obviously, but I still feel guilty for not doing enough.

It’s like my brain won’t let me slow down without punishing me for it.

Has anyone else dealt with this? If so, How do you handle it?

It feels so much harder now than when we were kids. Everyone already has their circles, and putting yourself out there feels awkward and exhausting.

What’s been the toughest part for you? And has anything actually worked?

I’ve tried so many things: therapy, journaling, exercise, but sometimes nothing sticks. I’m curious what actually works for other people when they’re in a rough patch.

What’s one small (or big) thing that genuinely helps you when things feel heavy?

Has anyone else experienced this weird kind of loneliness? What helps you feel a little less invisible?

Had a debate with a friend about this last night.

Would be very curious to find out what you guys think about this subject