u/Visible-Bug8280

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Interpersonal politics

Much to my displeasure, I've had to learn the ropes in this topic we're pretty weak at. A sensor bully really got on my nerves so had to be taught a lesson.

It felt so stupid while doing it.

I always wondered why it works. Why does no-one notice the intent behind the person playing games.

I felt very guilty after. But some situations are either eat or be eaten.

Anyway, the point of my post is... it's learnable and doable. It felt so stupid but it worked. It actually worked PEOPLE. I got what I wanted.

Any other PRACTICAL tips on how to navigate politics in group settings, even in friendships?

Side question: Why don't we talk about our real-life moves and smartness on here, rather than random questions that get you nowhere?

Quality of questions is = 6 year old level, no offence.

Can we act like grown-ups who want to achieve grown-up things ??

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u/Visible-Bug8280 — 4 hours ago
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Is life more dangerous for us

just our face can get us on the wrong side of someone.

we’re often alone, which makes us vulnerable in ways we don’t realize until it’s too late.

we are honest and have a habit of speaking up about things.

we don’t learn, speak or think like others.

we are often pessimists by nature. How many of our problems did we create ourselves?

people can really hate us no matter what we do. Either out of envy or annoyance.

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u/Visible-Bug8280 — 3 days ago