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How to tell a guy likes you, but is shy?
reddit.comWhat would you do if a family member of yours got cheated on?
My brother’s girlfriend cheated on him. Im pissed off. Here goes. My brother and his girlfriend(now ex) had been dating around 2 years. She was living in my family’s house for free. Never payed for bills, never bought groceries, always left a mess in the kitchen, left food in the sink, rarely said hi or bye. I had brushed it off back then because I liked the girl y’know? When we would hangout she was cool. Though there were little things I noticed, such as her snapping at my brother for little things. Whether it was cause he didn’t wanna cook for her after a long day at work, or when he didn’t bend over backwards to rearrange his schedule for her. Again, I brushed it off. Didn’t think much of it.
Around one month before the cheating situation, she randomly started staying at her mother’s house. Though her and my brother were still together. At first I had thought it was because my family and I were planning to move to another house in a month. Until I had noticed they were rarely together unless she wanted him to take her to dinner or something. By then I had figured it was only a matter of time before they break up. I didn’t wanna be nosy so I didn’t ask my brother about it.
Once we had moved into our new house I noticed she wasn’t around anymore. Again, I didn’t want to be nosy so I didn’t ask him about it. It wasn’t until four days ago, my brother finally broke down and mentioned he broke it off. When asked why, he said she had cheated on him. Though they were still together a little after finding out before he eventually broke up with her. It pisses me off extra because she was the one crying to him after cheating. My brother bought her a whole ass car. Which doesn’t mean she owes him anything, but you’re telling me you were driving to your side piece in the car your boyfriend bought you? What a fucking whore.
Im really trying not to be a bitch, but thinking about it all is seriously ticking me off. The fact that she’s doing fine with all the shit he got her while my brother suffers. All of it just makes me feel like she was using him. Though I know shes not the only one to blame. My brother was also stupid and blind. I feel bad for him. I just want her to get a taste of her own medicine y’know?
Theres this guy im not too close with, but he’s around. Only thing is he doesn’t say hi or bye when I arrive or leave and he only looks at me when im not watching. I know this cause I catch him and he looks away. Usually I would jump to the conclusion that he hates me, but I haven’t done anything for him to and he does talk to me at times, rarely, but when he does its always chill and he has a small smile when speaking. Then I reply and he shuts down. I don’t think he likes me, but I also haven’t done anything for him to hate me. What is it then? Am I reading too much into it? I don’t wanna be weird.
Explanation: Theres this guy im not too close with, but he’s around. Only thing is he doesn’t say hi or bye when I arrive or leave and he only looks at me when im not watching. I know this cause I catch him and he looks away. Usually I would jump to the conclusion that he hates me, but I haven’t done anything for him to and he does talk to me at times, rarely, but when he does its always chill and he has a small smile when speaking. Then I reply and he shuts down. I don’t think he likes me, but I also haven’t done anything for him to hate me. What is it then? Am I reading too much into it? I don’t wanna be weird I just wanna be friends.