u/TemporaryTop287

What should be my next step

So my ex ghosted me years ago. Still yet to be in another relationship I'd say for about 5 years. There have been some great people and now I feel not completely throwninv in the towel but still matching with others and meeting maybe once a month. I used to self bully myself maybe for 2 or 3 years saying like I'm going to find somebody else its going to be awesome but meet someone new pretty much each week and nothing ever worked. So my new stance is just when an opportunity presents itself to go somewhere and meet somebody new I will but not in an urgent way. Is this the right way to go about it?

I pushed 45 lb plates across a turf in my class today. I was so damn slow I realize it's not a competition. However I can't push it fast at all It takes me forever. I have an injury so I'm super slow and cautious now. Even so prior years ago I was the same way before my leg issues. Anyway I can improve? Is it the way I place my hands on the plate ?

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A lot of people I've spoken to about this think I'm foolish for this. However, when we were together I really thought "we had forever if we wanted it"

A lot of people I've spoken to about this think I'm foolish for this. However, when we were together I really thought "we had forever if we wanted it"

So I matched with this fellow a few years ago. We are connected online and we always plan to meet. Last year I reached out to him because I've been busy for a while and I said hey we should meet at one point and he says oh I'm in a solid relationship. So not too long I was kind of bored and I'm like I'm going to catch up and see how he is. Maybe this can be a point where we can finally meet.

His response is I'm busy with work and a stable relationship so that's all I have time for.

What should be my response to him or my answer? Should I ignore or should I say something like take care or say if you change your mind?