u/TeenageTurmoil

Basically, I (ftm 17) started playing again after a bit, but my first game was a long time ago that didn't last long because everyone was busy. Now I'm playing again, but it's with the 'newest' version, and I recently joined a group that seemed a bit strict on some rules and I figured it would be okay. But the DM, who was also the leader of the GC I joined, stated that since it was my first time playing, I should do whatever he says and I'm like, okay, I guess he's trying to guide me in this newer stuff, but what struck as odd to me is when he would reject most of my characters that I wanted to play. The first one was a human bard that makes modern pop culture references that no one gets but him, another was a goblin scout who was basically dobby meets Bitsy from LOA: Once Upon A Witchlight, and the only one he let me play, after adjusting to his rules, was a really curvy my age girl who was also an Alex, but it felt more like the stereotypical anime elf. And I didn't think much of it at first, just thought it was odd but I guessed he wanted me to choose an easier role to help introduce me to game mechanics.

But it started getting a bit weird after he put my character through these fan-service-y ass things and I know it's weird since the character is allegedly the same age as me but the rest of the group says that it's just how he was even though he wasnt doing it to anyone other than me. Then he threw a fit and told me I can go find another group but they wouldn't be as kind. Should I just restart at this point? I've made a lot of progress and it feels like I'm being a dick for no reason since he genuinely did help me understand some mechanics of it, but I'm not sure.