28 [F4M] intentional dating
Hello!
EDIT: By "FUN", I didn't mean it in sexual context 🥲 grabe naman may friendship with benefits pa talagang DMs lols.
I want something intentional.
I want to meet someone who also wants something serious. Ofc we're also gonna have fun pero hindi fun lang, hindi casual lang ang intention talaga. Hindi intimacy without commitment. But also wants it to be a committed relationship in the future if magkasundo tayo ofc and mag-align on what matters for both of us. 😄 We're just gonna have fun getting to know each other pero both of us must have intention to see if we're gonna be fit for a relationship.
Being intentional for me means having consistent communication, making time and effort to really get to know one another. Ayoko nung dynamics na kung kailan lang matripan mag-usap or magkita, if we don't workout, at least we tried genuinely di ba? 🙂
So I think before that happens, apparently it's necessary for us to have mutual attraction towards each other para genuine talaga na gusto nating mas makilala pa ang isa't isa. 😅 I guess that's where physical attraction enters the picture. So hopefully I meet someone I'll feel attracted with and ofc you too to me. 😄 Physically, personal preference I don't really get attracted with chubby guys.
Here are some details about me:
4'10 slim, average looks, cute type (i feel kinda shy to include that 😆)
people usually say I sound and look younger than my age
financially responsible (I spend within my means, I don't like being in debt)
I have goals and working on it even though progress might be slow, I will always try and do my best. So I want someone supportive and I'll be the same to yours.
from Cavite (I want someone whom I can meet in person regularly like weekly or few times a month, I feel like we'll get to know each other better in person so I don't prefer online comms lang but I want someone I can also talk with regularly online)
my hobbies are mostly indoors (moreon watching, listening to music and YouTube). I'd say I'm a homebody but I do like going out, making new experiences time to time. I go on hikes 2-3x a year. I like walking too especially around nature, that's why I enjoy hiking! It'll be nice if you have other hobbies that I'll be interested to try too! Maybe you can teach me haha
I just started going to the gym, medj inconsistent lately but I wanna do better and consistently for my fitness goals 😄 (I want someone na may fitness goals din and also working on it!)
no vices (I don't smoke. I don't gamble. And I don't drink. So I want someone without vices too. If you drink occasionally, that's fine for me.)
believes in God (I'm not perfect, actually a sinner but I want someone I can grow with in faith too)
I feel like it's hard to meet someone I'd want here but just also wanna give it a try maybe one last time.
Btw, just to add and reiterate something important, am not looking to connect with someone who:
only wants casual
just came from a breakup, in the process of moving on (i think you need friends, not landi)
taken, committed (this must be obvious pero reminder na lang din 😆)
Aside from those I mentioned above, I want to connect with someone around my age, +3 or -2.
Hope to meet someone interesting, on the same wavelength and looking for the same thing here!
See yah!
Will wait for your message. :)
When you do, tell me what you want and what made you reach out. Haha