u/Subject_Minimum4282

Men how long after a breakup do you feel it?

How soon after a breakup does it hit you? Could be a long term could even be a situationship with deep feelings that ended? Does it hit you immediately or later?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 11 hours ago

Lied about his life?

So some guy (31) me (23) I was seeing and when we met, he told me he was a film producer I then found out by Google that he's a production driver He took me back to his this was in the early stages of dating and I figured out that he was living with his sister and her kids had his own room and everything (noone was home that night) And he seemed like a bit like nervous and he was like “I'm moving next month All my stuff's in storage at the minute”

Then like a month or two later, he did move into this short-term like rental and I found out that was listed for sale like a few months after he moved in and it was a fully furnished rental. Only found this out on google he ghosted me around the exact time the flat was listed for sale. 6 months he kept this up for.

And this man literally rented a fully furnished rental for a few months and pretended he was permanently living there. Like why would someone do this?

And also, like on our first date I was like, oh, I like big cars. And then he goes, yeah, I've got a Range Rover. He didn't have a Range Rover. He had access to it for his job and I saw like a rotation of cars. He doesn’t even have his own car he was just telling me that his car's getting fixed. Why would someone do this? Like, why would you actually go as far as to rent a short-term flat and pretend you've moved out of your sister's house?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 19 hours ago

What doe this sound like guys?

So some guy (31) me (23) I was seeing and when we met, he told me he was a film producer I then found out by Google that he's a production driver. Don't know why he lied. Um, one night he took me back to his. This was in the early stages of dating, right? And I figured out that he was living with his sister and her kids had his own room and everything (noone was home that night) And he seemed like a bit like nervous and he was like “I'm moving next month All my stuff's in storage at the minute”

Then like a month or two later, he did move into this short-term like rental. Um, and I found out that like it was listed for sale like a few months after he moved in and it was a fully furnished rental.

And this man literally rented a fully furnished rental for a few months and pretended he was living there. Like why would someone do this?

And also, like on our first date I was like, oh, I like big cars. And then he goes, yeah, I've got a Range Rover. He didn't have a Range Rover. He had access to it for his job and I saw like a rotation of cars. And he was just telling me that his car's getting fixed. Why would someone do this? Like, why would you actually go as far as to rent a short-term flat and pretend you've moved out of your sister's house?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 24 hours ago

What does this sound like need help please

So some guy (31) me (23) I was seeing and when we met, he told me he was a film producer I then found out by Google that he's a production driver. Don't know why he lied. Um, one night he took me back to his. This was in the early stages of dating, right? And I figured out that he was living with his sister and her kids had his own room and everything (noone was home that night) And he seemed like a bit like nervous and he was like “I'm moving next month All my stuff's in storage at the minute”

Then like a month or two later, he did move into this short-term like rental. Um, and I found out that like it was listed for sale like a few months after he moved in and it was a fully furnished rental. Only found this out on google he ghosted me around the exact time the flat was listed for sale. 6 months he kept this up for

And this man literally rented a fully furnished rental for a few months and pretended he was living there. Like why would someone do this?

And also, like on our first date I was like, oh, I like big cars. And then he goes, yeah, I've got a Range Rover. He didn't have a Range Rover. He had access to it for his job and I saw like a rotation of cars. And he was just telling me that his car's getting fixed. Why would someone do this? Like, why would you actually go as far as to rent a short-term flat and pretend you've moved out of your sister's house?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 24 hours ago

Is this fake vulnerability or no?

The guy I am dating one afternoon randomly told me that he thinks he was a mistake I said stop dont say that and he goes nah I don’t think I was meant to he here. and he thinks his mum didn’t want any more children after his sister (He’s the youngest he’s 31) he brings up his Mum quite a lot but why is he like telling me this? Why is he telling me that he thinks he’s a mistake and that he thinks he wasn’t meant to be here? it’s a lot no? Why is he saying this to me?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 1 day ago

Is this vulnerability or performance?

The guy I am dating one afternoon randomly told me that he thinks he was a mistake I said stop dont say that and he goes nah I don’t think I was meant to he here. and he thinks his mum didn’t want any more children after his sister (He’s the youngest he’s 31) he brings up his Mum quite a lot but why is he like telling me this? Why is he telling me that he thinks he’s a mistake and that he thinks he wasn’t meant to be here? it’s a lot no? Why is he saying this to me?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 1 day ago

Men do you get jealous over a girl if your not into her or its casual just because of ego or no?

Men would you get jealous if a girl brings up men or you suspect she has options if your not that into her or its casual just because of ego or no? Would feel jealous because theres feelings involved?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 1 day ago

I have a question for the men

What is the reason for some guy I am seeing (nothing official) getting jealous. Ive noticed he reacts when I bring up men, or if I go on nights out he constantly texts me throughout and the next morning i was debriefing him on my night out and telling him how guys paid for me and my friends drinks and he responds “i mean of course your a young hot girl why wouldn’t they”

One night we got into bed at 3am and my phone rang and he was like “calls at 3am is wild, can you not put that on silent”

Do you think he’s jealous? First of all he’s not my man so why is he annoyed?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 1 day ago

Jealousy

What is the reason for some guy I am seeing nothing official getting jealous. Ive noticed he reacts when I bring up men, or if I go on nights out he constantly texts me throughout and the next morning i was debriefing him on my night out and telling him how guys paid for me and my friends drinks and he responds “i mean of course your a young hot girl why wouldn’t they”

One night we got into bed at 3am and my phone rang and he was like “calls at 3am is wild, can you not put that on silent”

Do you think he’s jealous? First of all he’s not my man so why is he annoyed?

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 1 day ago

Men how do you know your falling in love?

I’m intrigued to know when a man feels like hes falling love with a girl. Like what do you feel and is there any actions or things you do that naturally come out? Its hard to know if a man likes you or is falling for you

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u/Subject_Minimum4282 — 2 days ago