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From the beginning he said that he had crazy exs, while a month after moving tot he same town as him we went out to a street dance and he left me by myself with random people all night and the we got to his home and I noticed a girl had added me as a friend from his hometown and I asked if he knew her he said that it was his crazy ex.

I ended up going home to my house because I was mad about him leaving me alone with random people all night. I woke up at 5 that morning and he had texted me good morning and that he was sorry but he was going back to sleep.

I went to go check instagram and noticed I had a message request, I open it and it’s the girl who had added me on Facebook, she said that he had been messaging her that he missed and loved her the night before.

I drove with sad girl music and sobbed all the way to his house and I got there and I walked upstairs and I sat and I waited for him to wake up and silently cried. He wakes up and says what’s wrong to which my response was who were you messaging last night. He lied and he said no one. I said I have physically proof that you were texting your ex.
He said his friend had texted her ( I now know this is a lie)

A couple months go by and I am at his moms we had just been out with his friends and he falls asleep but his phone keeps going off over and over again. I open it and realize most of the conversation has been deleted. So I recover it, it is him messaging someone saying that he loves them and the person responds with leave your girlfriend and come be with me. He then said come pick me up and we can talk.

I immediately was like wtf. So I grab my keys to leave and his mom wakes up. She tells me to sleep on the couch and she will go talk to him. He then comes out and begs me to talk to him. So I go into the room and I ask who he’s messaging. He lies and tries to show me a different number and claim it’s one of his friends. I tell him I’m not stupid who were you messaging.

He then repeatedly keeps saying he can’t tell me over and over and over again. So I say let’s go out to my car then because either you’re telling me or I’m driving home. We get in the car and he immediately starts crying that he’s not gay over and over again ( mind you I am bisexual I don’t care what you like just don’t cheat)

Come to find out this is a guy who’s he’s been messaging for the last couple of months and the guy has sent him text of telling he wants to have sex with him and videos of him self.

We ended up driving back to where we live and he begs me not to leave him and say he will delete all his social media. My social media was deleted for 4+ months and then I came to find out that his never was.

A couple months pass and I saw a tik tok someone had posted and liked it. Then about 3 hours later I start getting comments on tik tok from a video I had posted of him. That say girl that’s sad he’s playing you. I then go to her profile and she has uploaded tik toks explaining that he has been being her lunch and ubering over to see her.

I confront him, he claims that she’s crazy. (Insert eye roll)

A few months go by he is on a bachelor trip with some of his buddies and I get a message request from the first girl his “ crazy ex” saying that he’s been messaging her and following and unfollowing her.
I then calm him because we are supposed to get married a month after this.

He claims she is just trying to sabotage our marriage.

Well long story short we got married and are getting a divorce and him and the crazy ex are already back together.

From the beginning he said that he had crazy exs, while a month after moving tot he same town as him we went out to a street dance and he left me by myself with random people all night and the we got to his home and I noticed a girl had added me as a friend from his hometown and I asked if he knew her he said that it was his crazy ex.

I ended up going home to my house because I was mad about him leaving me alone with random people all night. I woke up at 5 that morning and he had texted me good morning and that he was sorry but he was going back to sleep.

I went to go check instagram and noticed I had a message request, I open it and it’s the girl who had added me on Facebook, she said that he had been messaging her that he missed and loved her the night before.

I drove with sad girl music and sobbed all the way to his house and I got there and I walked upstairs and I sat and I waited for him to wake up and silently cried. He wakes up and says what’s wrong to which my response was who were you messaging last night. He lied and he said no one. I said I have physically proof that you were texting your ex.
He said his friend had texted her ( I now know this is a lie)

A couple months go by and I am at his moms we had just been out with his friends and he falls asleep but his phone keeps going off over and over again. I open it and realize most of the conversation has been deleted. So I recover it, it is him messaging someone saying that he loves them and the person responds with leave your girlfriend and come be with me. He then said come pick me up and we can talk.

I immediately was like wtf. So I grab my keys to leave and his mom wakes up. She tells me to sleep on the couch and she will go talk to him. He then comes out and begs me to talk to him. So I go into the room and I ask who he’s messaging. He lies and tries to show me a different number and claim it’s one of his friends. I tell him I’m not stupid who were you messaging.

He then repeatedly keeps saying he can’t tell me over and over and over again. So I say let’s go out to my car then because either you’re telling me or I’m driving home. We get in the car and he immediately starts crying that he’s not gay over and over again ( mind you I am bisexual I don’t care what you like just don’t cheat)

Come to find out this is a guy who’s he’s been messaging for the last couple of months and the guy has sent him text of telling he wants to have sex with him and videos of him self.

We ended up driving back to where we live and he begs me not to leave him and say he will delete all his social media. My social media was deleted for 4+ months and then I came to find out that his never was.

A couple months pass and I saw a tik tok someone had posted and liked it. Then about 3 hours later I start getting comments on tik tok from a video I had posted of him. That say girl that’s sad he’s playing you. I then go to her profile and she has uploaded tik toks explaining that he has been being her lunch and ubering over to see her.

I confront him, he claims that she’s crazy. (Insert eye roll)

A few months go by he is on a bachelor trip with some of his buddies and I get a message request from the first girl his “ crazy ex” saying that he’s been messaging her and following and unfollowing her.
I then calm him because we are supposed to get married a month after this.

He claims she is just trying to sabotage our marriage.

Well long story short we got married and are getting a divorce and him and the crazy ex are already back together.

You have hurt me in a way that made and continues to make me feel crazy. When you came into my life I thought you were going to be my Prince Charming but then a month into you cheated on me, but you manipulated me. And it wasn’t once and it wasn’t just men or women, and it wasn’t all just them being crazy.

You were going to leave me in Vegas. You would drink and drink and my only request was for you to shower and brush your teeth and you couldn’t do that. You wouldn’t even delete social media when you told me we were going to together, I deleted all my account just to find out you never did. You made your mom convince me you’d never cheat on me.

You made me feel small whenever I genuinely needed you because you were having a good time with your friends drinking.

You didn’t even write our vows at our wedding. Then you drank til you were blackout drunk and then tried to drive me and your groomsman home and they pulled me out because I shouldn’t end up dying on my wedding day. You also have no recollection of our wedding night and then laughed about it the next day like it was no big deal.

Over the next couple months you would throw toddler tantrums and throw things at me to the point of when id dread getting off work and weekends because i didn’t know what it was going to be. Finally I had enough,

I went back to the house and got alll my stuff and the disrespect I witnessed there is something I will never forget, shit and blood smeared all over the bed. The open condom wrappers, the bloody tampons in cupboards. The cat piss smell because you didn’t have the brain to put cat litter in the boxes for the cats who you supposedly you loved. Then you send me a text that you could never trust me again what about my trust?

Then I find out that my suspicions of you cheating on me with your ex were true all along, that’s the biggest hit of them all I’m glad you’re happy, but i thought she was supposedly crazy and that she cheated on you all the time oh wait I found out today you were that cheated on her all the time, you just lied about it to me. Also if you could both stop sending me text at 3 in the morning saying together forever bitch that would be great believe me I’m happy for you guys but I really don’t care anymore. I have enough going on.