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I want to hear from the perspective of an avoidant, fearful or dismissive, or from someone who has experience dealing with them.

Also this doesn’t necessarily have to be right after they (or you) verbalized their love, it could also be certain things you did when you realized you were falling in love. Please don’t say “avoiding” I’m looking for more detailed answers like “telling them something was going on in my life as an excuse to create distance” if y’know what I mean.

I just want to hear from avoidant first hand

People usually assume i’m not a virgin because of the way i look or age since i’m 17. I guess that’s fair considering most ppl my age aren’t virgins… and a girl at my school had 37 bodies at 16… so ik where some people are coming from, but genuinely how do you get someone to believe you.

i’m just curious in general but this is my current situation

so i have this friend.. i usually tell him i love him all the time , but i always meant it in like a you make me happy i like being around you/ friendly way. He would never say it back and sometimes doubted i meant it. however, he told me that he loves me the other night, then the day after he was just off, he said he was having a bad day and was barely communicating with me, so I eventually left it alone, but today it’s the same thing

so i have this friend.. i usually tell him i love him all the time , but i always meant it in like a you make me happy i like being around you/ friendly way. He would never say it back and sometimes doubted i meant it. however, he told me that he loves me the other night, then the day after he was just off, he said he was having a bad day and was barely communicating with me, so I eventually left it alone, but today it’s the same thing

I’m not even joking he’s sexually attracted to his sister like wtf and i’m not sure if he actually is or he’s just doing it to try to get a reaction with me and make me jealous

genuinely what do i do

I’m not even joking he’s sexually attracted to his sister like wtf and i’m not sure if he actually is or he’s just doing it to try to get a reaction with me and make me jealous

genuinely what do i do

We’re not in a relationship and we’re more like “friends”I guess, but he’s always trying to make me jealous and doesn’t even attempt to hide it. He’ll bring up another girl and be like “you mad” or “what you’re getting jealous?” and will do it pretty often

the cards pulled were

initially was a single card pull

six of pentacles first card i pulled

I think he wants to feel in control or see if i’ll beg for his attention

queen of wands was to clarify and what i came out as

i feel like he may be intimidated by me and it’s a way to humble me

share your own thoughts/interpretations! Thank you

I was wondering if anyone wanted to give me a free reading to practice, or if they were just bored and had free time!

I get super disappointed when people advertise free readings and then they give a generic answer saying that “this is much deeper and too layered and that we must go further” “but to proceed it’s it’s $40” like don’t get me wrong. I appreciate all of the readers but the ones I’m talking about aren’t even legit. They don’t answer questions and they give the same script to everyone to give them false hope and take their money. these hidden fees are the worst. They should just advertise as paid readings imo.