u/Signal-Nature1

I posted yesterday and got so much feedback that was very helpful. I played to things I knew he liked, dressed up and asked him about what turns him on. I got some solid answers and even things I didn’t know. For anyone who didn’t see my post yesterday I 32f have been trying to help my husband 34m keep an erection that he says is hard to keep because of stress. I do see some light at the end of the tunnel now that we are trying some new things. I hope it keeps working and wish me luck tonight

Thank you for all the help earlier today. He was aroused for a little and some things did happen. I really tried to play to fantasies of his to help and he was aroused for about 15 minutes which is more than I’ve gotten in week. I’m hoping this continues to help us

I posted earlier about how I’ve been trying to spice up the bedroom for my husband and I really have been feeling unattractive lately with my husband not wanting to be intimate. My post earlier had so many nice people to build me up and let me know I’m doing my best, this is a very nice community and I wanted to say thank you.

I’m (32f) trying to spice up the bedroom with my (34m) husband. I went down on him and grabbed his hand and put it on the back of my head. This was working for awhile but then I could feel him getting softer. I tried everything to get him back up but he just stayed soft after. I’m very much into trying new things for him and doing fun things. But he said he’s stressed because of work lately.

I’m (32f) trying to spice up the bedroom with my (34m) husband. I went down on him and grabbed his hand and put it on the back of my head. This was working for awhile but then I could feel him getting softer. I tried everything to get him back up but he just stayed soft after. I’m very much into trying new things for him and doing fun things. But he said he’s stressed because of work lately.

I 31f had a fling 3 years ago and my husband 33m was talking to his friend telling the details. I feel embarrassed for his friends to be talking about it with him. I asked him not to share since it was the beginning of the relationship and I don’t feel that his friends deserve all the details of what I did and more.

tl;dr my husband is talking about past issues with his friends and I don’t like it