u/Reasonable-Agent3520

I don't talk much but there's a reason behind it

People think I'm quiet , don't speak much but there's a reason behind it , it's that my communication skills sucks , when I speak I can feel it by myself how poor I am speaking with people. And people just get disinterested , so I just don't speak at all (in groups) unless I have to.

I'm trying to improve it by searching on the internet on how to but it doesn't help , they say I have to talk to more people but

I rarely meet people but when I do , this is what I always worry about , before meeting with someone i always think - what am I gonna talk with them? On which topic? What if they lose interest mid-conversion? I wish the conversation would go smoothly (especially in one-on-one)

Talking with someone seems like a chore to me and drains my energy so much🫩even if it's one-on-one conversation for some few minutes .

My story telling sucks too , I can feel how boringly i tell my stories and people around me getting bored and fake smiling.

I can't help being so aware and self conscious about my poor communication skills.. i really want to improve it so badly.

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u/Reasonable-Agent3520 — 3 days ago
▲ 2 r/infp

People think I'm quite, but there's a reason behind it

People think I'm quiet , don't speak much but there's a reason behind it , it's that my communication skills sucks , when I speak I can feel it by myself how poor I am speaking with people. And people just get disinterested , so I just don't speak at all (in groups) unless I have to.

I'm trying to improve it by searching on the internet on how to but it doesn't help , they say I have to talk to more people but

I rarely meet people but when I do , this is what I always worry about , before meeting with someone i always think - what am I gonna talk with them? On which topic? What if they lose interest mid-conversion? I wish the conversation would go smoothly (especially in one-on-one)

Talking with someone seems like a chore to me and drains my energy so much🫩even if it's one-on-one conversation for some few minutes .

My story telling sucks too , I can feel how boringly i tell my stories and people around me getting bored and fake smiling.

I can't help being so aware and self conscious about my poor communication skills.. i really want to improve it so badly.

I'm writing this in this community to see if my people face the same thing or is it just me🥲

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u/Reasonable-Agent3520 — 3 days ago
▲ 25 r/isfp

People think I'm quite but there's a reason behind it

People think I'm quiet , don't speak much but there's a reason behind it , it's that my communication skills sucks , when I speak I can feel it by myself how poor I am speaking with people. And people just get disinterested , so I just don't speak at all (in groups) unless I have to.

I'm trying to improve it by searching on the internet on how to but it doesn't help , they say I have to talk to more people but

I rarely meet people but when I do , this is what I always worry about , before meeting with someone i always think - what am I gonna talk with them? On which topic? What if they lose interest mid-conversion? I wish the conversation would go smoothly (especially in one-on-one)

Talking with someone seems like a chore to me and drains my energy so much🫩even if it's one-on-one conversation for some few minutes .

My story telling sucks too , I can feel how boringly i tell my stories and people around me getting bored and fake smiling.

I can't help being so aware and self conscious about my poor communication skills.. i really want to improve it so badly.

I'm writing this in this community to see if my people face the same thing or is it just me🥲

reddit.com
u/Reasonable-Agent3520 — 3 days ago