u/PositiveTwist3571

Why are men always blamed for dowry.. What about women and their families who take dowry in the name of high income, property, status, while their own daughter barely add 20% 30% monetary value?

Hypergamy creates imbalance while lead to so many issues.. One of my known married to a guy who earns less than her. She neither gave dowry nor brought any land. She compensated by earning more

But most of marriage are still hypergamous.. Women have started earning but they are still operating like the 18th century.. But in the 18th century, the situation was different.. Very little opportunity and education existed. It used to make sense.. But their preference is still the same.

Hypergamy itself is dowry.

Why are men always blamed for dowry.. What about women and their families who take dowry in the name of high income, property, status, while their own daughter barely add 20% 30% monetary value?

Hypergamy creates imbalance while lead to so many issues.. One of my known married to a guy who earns less than her. She neither gave dowry nor brought any land. She compensated by earning more

But most of marriage are still hypergamous.. Women have started earning but they are still operating like the 18th century.. But in the 18th century, the situation was different.. Very little opportunity and education existed. It used to make sense.. But their preference is still the same.

Hypergamy itself is dowry.

Why are men always blamed for dowry.. What about women and their families who take dowry in the name of high income, property, status, while their own daughter barely add 20% 30% monetary value?

Hypergamy creates imbalance while lead to so many issues.. One of my known married to a guy who earns less than her. She neither gave dowry nor brought any land. She compensated by earning more

But most of marriage are still hypergamous.. Women have started earning but they are still operating like the 18th century.. But in the 18th century, the situation was different.. Very little opportunity and education existed. It used to make sense.. But their preference is still the same.

Hypergamy itself is dowry.

I have seen every woman justify alimony by giving so many different reasons.. Just yesterday I heard women deserve alimony because they have done household chores..

Now just think from man's perspective.. U know right most people get married when they have a stable career, status and bank balance

Most men live a frugal life when they are in college and working hard to achieve success. Most of the men have no support system.. Society doesn't respect them.. They don't get support when they needed most. After working hard for several years, they suddenly become successful then a women come to him life and gets married to him.. She is enjoying everything that her husband has gotten through the hard work.. What was her wife's role in his achievements?

Just take an example of Hardik Pandya.. He belongs to a very poor family.. He used to eat Maggie before going to the stadium for practice, but he was struggling and completely broke. Then he got successful and became filthy rich.. What is the role of his wife in his success?

Mtlb mehnat akele kiya, kisi ne usko khana bhi nhi khilaya.. Aaj kamyab hone ke Baad jab life acchi hue, wahi acchi zindagi wife ko diya.. After a divorce, it's only the wife who loses so she deserves alimony?

No, her wife should give him compensation for enjoying the luxury which her husband achieved through sacrifice, compromise.. Usne shadi kar ke hi ehsaan kar diya ladki pe