r/JodiMilan

📋 Basics

• Age / Gender: 26 F

• Height: Between 5’4” and 5'5"

• Location: Bangalore

• Profession: Software Engineer

• Salary: 40 LPA (Base pay + stocks)

• Mother Tongue / Caste: Kannada / Brahmin

• Diet: Eggetarian

• Habits: Non-smoker, Non-drinker

✨ A Little About Me

I'm a friendly and understanding person. I love travelling and exploring new places!

🔍 What I'm Looking For

I’m looking to build a genuine relationship where we stand together and support each other in ups and downs of life.

Looking for someone chill and easy going. Should be passionate about their work and doing well in their career.

Please do not DM if you don’t match my requirements (that would only save time for both of us)

✨ My requirements

• A modern thinking Brahmin (Strict NO to very orthodox people)

• Kannadiga

• Vegetarian / Eggetarian

• Age: 26 to 30

• Height: 5’8” to 6’2”

• No Smoking / Drinking

• Salary: 25-50 LPA

• Living in Bangalore or willing to relocate.

• Should be willing to stay independently after marriage (Non negotiable)

📩 Let's Connect!

If this resonates with you and you'd like to get to know each other, please feel free to drop a DM 😊

Just wanting opinions on whether men nowadays are willing to marry a girl who isn't super career oriented. Not trying to start a fight

I am looking for a groom for my sibling. ( trying my luck out here )

Age - 27

Height - 5'2

Resides in - Bihar

Profession - Owns a clothing brand.

Looks quite pretty, also models for our own brand.

We have a beautiful house in our hometown ( no brother's ), 5 mins away from Airport.

Hindu, Brahmin.

The major issue we are having to find a groom for her is - she won't be able to relocate completely, as she has worked for this business since she was in school, around 100 rural women are dependent on it,

leaving it is not an option.

● Expectations

A decent guy, who earns good enough ( anything above 15 LPA works ).

One is more than welcomed , if he wishes to wfh , or ready to travel ( my sister would too ), basically find a middle ground to work this out, which goes in favor for both :)

Hindu, Brahmin.

Like whenever I ask this I'm getting ghosted

Why are men always blamed for dowry.. What about women and their families who take dowry in the name of high income, property, status, while their own daughter barely add 20% 30% monetary value?

Hypergamy creates imbalance while lead to so many issues.. One of my known married to a guy who earns less than her. She neither gave dowry nor brought any land. She compensated by earning more

But most of marriage are still hypergamous.. Women have started earning but they are still operating like the 18th century.. But in the 18th century, the situation was different.. Very little opportunity and education existed. It used to make sense.. But their preference is still the same.

Hypergamy itself is dowry.

Hi !

So I’ve been single all my life. It’s not like nobody approached me so far but idk i never felt the need to be in a relationship while i was in college and i used to shut people down whenever they showed any romantic interest in me. So I’m a noob when it comes to love life.

Now coming to me, I’m 25 (and short lol ) 5’, no way I consider myself super pretty but people call me cute and sometimes intimidating (but I promise I’m the chillest person once I’m comfortable).

Education wise I graduated with a Btech in computer science in 2023 and I’m persuing an mba online currently so I’m doing full time freelancing and making close to 8lpa. I’ve rejected pretty good offers during my engineering because i was not really into corporate jobs , not because I’m incompetent but i just couldn’t see myself doing a corporate job for the next 15-20 years of my life. So my goal is to get into teaching after I’m done with my mba. So career wise I’m still not where I want to be.

Now I’m super picky when it comes to having a life partner. Like I don’t expect you to make xyz lpa , have a degree from xyz college or anything. As long as you’re intelligent and ambitious, earning enough money to live comfortably, have a good stable cute family background, I’d love to have you in my life.

I’m a bit tough from outside, like some people say meri zubaan Kaichi jesi chalti hai but istg if i fall in love with you and i start considering you my family, nobody will love you more than me.

I’m also super talkative once I’m comfortable, if you’re someone who is super quiet, too logical all the time i might not be the right person for you.

Anyway, I’m looking for someone serious (marriage potential) not timepass. If you vibe with my post , DM me cutie 💕

Ps : Bauna bolke mazak mat Udaya karo yaar wtf

Hello . I am a 30 year old Hindu Male living in Delhi NCR. I love travelling and music. Weekends are mostly chill with childhood friends. My salary is around 40LPA. Looking for a humble, caring and understanding partner.

I've tried matrimony sites but no one really got my interest.

Desired criteria in partnership (not patthar ki lakeer)

Age:25-30

Salary: doesn't matter as long as you are happy with it

Caste: no bar

DMs are open and i look forward to getting to know you :).

Hi M 30 (Divorced) I’ll be honest about something I don’t usually say out loud I’ve developed a bit of an addiction to sexting. It’s something I genuinely enjoy and, at least right now, I don’t feel like quitting.

At the same time, there’s always that fear of being judged for it, which makes it harder to talk about openly.

I’m curious if there are others (especially women) who feel the same way comfortable with it, enjoy it, and don’t see it as something negative.

Not here to be weird or push boundaries, just looking for like-minded people and maybe a judgment-free conversation.

PS: Got a little help from ChatGPT to put this into words.

Age: 29

Height: 5'3"

Dietary Preference: Vegetarian

Working

Drink: No

Smoke: No

Other vices: No

Want to have children: Yes

Caste in case it matters: Marwari Brahmin (I don't have caste preferences, as long as you eat vegetarian food/non veg occassionally)

I am someone who value deep connections over casual acquaintances. I cherish routine and stability, and hold strong convictions. I enjoy my own space, and prefer intimate settings. I am bit of a foodie. I tend to be bit of a homebody, preferring cozy nights over loud social events. I am bit of a deep thinker, choosing to process emotions internally before looking for external comfort.

Few comments about me from people around:

You are such a sweetheart.

I love your smile.

Itna acha nahi hote logon ke liye.

You don't know how awesome you are!

You seem so much fun (over text)

Just a few preferences:

You should be earning well: It's not to come across as a gold digger, but I don't have a clue how to filter people on Reddit otherwise. I want your calibre and talent reflected in your academics or profession somehow. Idk but I like people who are devoted to their work, display great work ethic and sincerity. (Ready to receive all the flak over this)

You should be tall? It's just that these are preferences not a deal breaker.

Someone who values honesty and transparency. Someone easy going and who doesn't mind taking the lead. Someone who is a good listener and can provide emotional support when I need to talk things through. Someone who respects my individuality.

Also this is a piece of what I want: I wish to settle in Europe. I want my kids to have education there most probably. But since the Nordic countries and the jobs there are language dependent, it is mostly a fantasy as of now :)

If you feel like you and I can connect, hit me up. And please introduce yourself like I have, hey/hi won't get you anywhere. And I hope for you to find whatever you're looking for, may you realise your dreams and desires 🌻

Hi everyone,

I'm an independent woman at the beginning prime of my career. I earn a humble salary to invest in funds, pay bills instead of my parents and also buy books for myself and my younger broski.

I work with Storage and Compute as a profession, I read, draw(cute doodles), and research about many topics like BCI (Brain Computer Interface) as passion.

I'm no expert, but a seeker of knowledge everywhere. I'll prolly drill your brain to elicit everything you know.

I like yoga, but I lack consistency to do it everyday. Working on it!

I come from a Brahmin household in Karnataka. A native Banglorian.

I'm shy of 5'0 and I want someone who can reach the top shelf easily (5'6-5'8). 5'9 and above is just excess height for me (if you are fine squatting to fit in the frame, idc)

I'm looking for a Brahmin guy who is not from Athreya gothra (iykyk). 26-28 year old. Someone stable with their life, or someone even figuring out beyond basics, so we can grow together 🥹

I'm fine with relocating outside of India.

I don't drink, smoke or even step out of my home unless absolutely necessary. (My parents will break my legs if I go out without telling them where and a valid reason is a must. 🫪🫨🤧😭)

I yap a lot, maybe it's evident already. I don't like if you give me attention the entire day, like... Don't you have any other work? But when you talk to me, I need full attention.

Casual Hi/Hellos would be ignored. Quality over quantity peeps! 🥹🥹

Edit: I'm overwhelmed with the amount of DMs😭😭 Let me filter out... Being a Kannadiga is a must, being a Brahmin is a must (non Athreya gothra), good English is a must...

It's been almost 6 months I've been on all the well known sites and I feel they don't solve the problem of finding a mate

Most of the ppl have very low intent of taking things seriously like I've talked to 100s of girls most of them have unrealistic expectations some say they are aligned with you but out of no where they ghost you

I'm really tired of this finding a partner thing!!

I’ve noticed in this subreddit that many women posting there seem highly accomplished — graduates from Tier 1/Tier 2 colleges, some with Master’s degrees from the US, settled careers, and doing well in life. At the same time, I also see many 30+ men who are still unmarried.

Genuine question: if so many capable, educated, and stable people are single, what do you think is the real reason? Are expectations higher, or is compatibility more difficult to find than we assume?

Also asking for myself — I’ve recently started seeing girls through the arranged marriage setup. I'm 27 and still trying to achieve my goals. Am I starting too early, or is this a normal time to begin?

Not judging anyone, just looking for honest perspectives and suggestions.

Every man who posts here gets no attention at all. Every post by a woman has double digit comments.

Men won’t get any attention and women will get so many DMs and comments that they’ll probably run away as fast as they could.

Like every dating app, matrimonial website - this JodiMilan is also f*ck€d.

Should I just ask my mom to find me a girl? Does that still work?

Hello All!

Me - M27 | 6'1" | 84kg | AI Engineer | 29 LPA | Pune | Brahmin Bhumihar | Anshik Manglik | No Smoking | No Drinking

Simple | Humble | Extrovert | Logical | Gym | Humorous | Atheist | Apolitical | Loves finance | might switch career to Finance | limited travelling now | wants to have kids |

No Pets | Vegetarian

Wants - A girl who is educated and independent financially. Can talk logically, takes accountability, is loyal and beautiful. Should not smoke or drink, any diet is okay (veg,nonveg,jain) but should not disturb my diet.

Rest everything we can figure out together.

Hey! 37M single, never married.. IT engineer by the day… and over working corporate majdoor trying to meet deadlines by the night.. 😁

When I am not working, I spend my time on OTT watching some movies, or listening to music… would like some recommendations..

I go for walks in the evening (or atleast I try if nobody hijacks my calendar) I hate mornings.. sometimes I play games on my laptop.. I used to play badminton but I hardly see any human being these days so that’s out of question..

Let’s cut the chase and act like we are in relationship already..,

Delulu is the solulu 🥹🤞

Hey folks ,just curious about the question. Some prepares for govt jobs till their 30's with no job in hand. What' their future looks like in case of relationship/marriages?

Hey I am 26F sde2 working in one of the top pbc (MAANG). I belong to a very strict household so until college my parents didn't allowed me to talk boys not even normal talks.I was in a top nit and was day scholar so never truly enjoyed the college life . They didn't allowed me to even attend fests.

Now I am forced to look at the marriage prospects they r bringing me thru AM but I want to explore real relationships and follow the real route .

26(F) Punjabi girl in Dubai looking for her person (maybe husband, maybe best friend first 😅)

Okay, shooting my shot here because why not 😂

I’m a Punjabi girl living in Dubai, college dropout (yes really 😄), but somehow got very lucky and built a career that’s doing amazingly well. I’m ambitious, independent, affectionate, and I love deep conversations mixed with stupid jokes.

Not fully sure where I want to settle long term, so open to figuring life out with the right person.

Honestly looking for someone I can talk to first — a real connection. Someone who can be a best friend before anything else. I want that kind of relationship where we can talk about everything, motivate each other, laugh a lot, and build something real.

Would love a man who’s doing well for himself too, emotionally mature, kind, funny, and serious about eventually finding a partner.

I want someone to share life with. Success is nice, but having your person hits different.

If you’re a good conversationalist, have a good heart, and think friendship should come before marriage, message me. Worst case we become friends, best case… who knows 😂