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Back in October during some random late night conversation, I told my girlfriend that I like when people play with my hair when I’m stressed. It wasn’t even some deep moment, I just said it casually and she replied with “noted” like she was saving it somewhere 😭

Fast forward to yesterday.

We were arguing properly for the first time in a while. Not cute fake fighting. Actual irritation. Dry replies. That awkward tension where both people are talking normally but you can tell nobody’s really okay.

The fight itself was dumb honestly. I told her I’d call her after reaching home from college and then accidentally slept for like 4 hours. When I woke up my phone looked like a missing person investigation.

So now we’re sitting outside campus and she’s giving me a lecture in the calmest tone possible which somehow feels worse than shouting.

She goes: “You know what your problem is? ” And while saying that she randomly fixed my hair because the wind messed it up, then scratched the back of my head for like two seconds.

Then continued arguing like nothing happened.

BRO, I swear my entire thought process disappeared instantly.

Like one second I was ready to defend myself and the next I was just sitting there relaxed for no reasonnnnnn 😭

And the worst part is she noticed IMMEDIATELY.

She literally stopped talking, looked at me for a second and went , See? This is why you never survive arguments with me. I asked “what does that even mean?”

She said: “You get distracted too easily.”

I was trying so hard not to laugh😭 because she was completely right.

Then I tried acting serious again and said “Can we focus on the actual issue?”

And she goes: “No because now you look too calm.”

WHO FIGHTS LIKE THIS 😭

After that the argument kinda died on its own. We just sat there quietly for a bit.

Then she leaned on my shoulder and said:

“Just text me next time so I know you’re alive, idiot.”

And suddenly I realized she wasn’t really angry about the missed call. She was angry because she actually cares.

Anyway yeah. I think the scariest people to date are the ones who remember tiny random things you said months ago because one day they’ll use it against you emotionally.

I never told this to anyone yet. Just thought it might help me

So when I was nine, there was a function in our house so many relatives came, there was no one around my at that time so mostly spent my time with my father’s cousin sister who was about 20 that time. I knew her since I was born so we had a good bond.

So one day when there was nobody at home we were playing together , she took me to a room at the top floor where nobody comes generally, she told me to help her I don’t know most of details as I was a child but she told me to lick her private parts and I did it , I felt disgusted as I remember that I puked after that. I thought it was over but she made me do it again. I couldn’t reject her first reason was that I respected her and wanted to help her second reason was that I felt good doing that back then I didn’t knew why although I felt disgusted after doing that.
She made do it many times until the function ended and at the end I also started liking it .
I sounds like fantasy but it is very dark bcz after the function ended she went he her home but It completely changed me . As I did something like that with a person who I thought as an older sister I couldn’t look at any women properly now. As the time flew by I wanted to do that again, I nearly forced my little sister to do it with me (not sex just licking) but I was stopped by something I don’t remember but thank god I didn’t made her do anything bad. I realised what I want to do is completely bad but the urge won’t stop. I couldn’t talk to any of my female class mates properly bc whenever I looked at them I just wanted to touch them, at very young age I was full of guilt and I couldn’t tell anyone.
As the time passed I become more desperate and started seeing girls around me as sex toys who I wanted to just fuck , when they talked to me I felt so much guilt. But I can say that I had to put so much will power to stop my mind.

Recently I am trying to be a normal person bcz I didn’t did anything bad, it wasn’t fault I try to think like that but still I am full of guilt 😔

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Just a little more up bum and you get proper ac downside too 😂

this is how he talks when I want reassurance.

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I got my dad's curly hair and my mom's hair has slight waves so I have a couple of almost straight chunks and a couple of curls with bad shrinkage.

Recently got layers.

Any advice on how I can get more definition and less frizz? Does anyone know my curl pattern?

A few friends of my flatmate came over and they all smoke. Found this box and instantly feel gutted. I asked him the same, he dodged it. So tell me you all. How?