u/Petrychorr

I've been trying various rush starting strats for the different factions (capitol/treasury, tier 7 critters, law, etc) and seem to be settling on a "mixed" approach. A little bit of income, plus one upgraded tier of critter, plus (potentially) a mage guild. In Homm3, I'd typically run capitol first week just to maximize income, but with how many resources there seem to be on the map, I just forgo the XP from chests to get gold instead.

What factions and starting strats have you been leaning into?

I feel awkward and nervous asking this question, especially as a trans lesbian.

I know it's not particularly uncommon to fantasize about people you find attractive. For me, if I see someone even remotely attractive I can't help but wonder what they'd look like naked. Sometimes it feels really intrusive. Sometimes it feels gross and "wrong" or like there's some kind of unspoken rule I'm violating. But between gender/body envy and sexual attraction... It's really hard to quiet my mind to these thoughts.

For the record, I know this is "normal" in the sense that it's totally fine to have these kinds of thoughts. I also know that it's not inherently objectifying to think like this (these people are still women and are more than just their bodies, etc) and that visual attraction is often male-coded but is gender neutral.

If you're someone like me: How can I calm my mind to these kinds of thoughts? Do I, instead, just roll with it? What are some things I can do to stop constantly imagining stranger's bodies like this?

Hey y'all!

I know it's a Monday, so I'm not expecting much, but are there any fun events happening in town tonight? The weather is amazing and I'd like to take advantage of it.

Thanks!