My (M54) wife (F57) went on what can only be described as two dates with another guy. She swears nothing physical happened but i have no way to verify that, of course. I found out by questioning her; otherwise I don't think she would have told me.
I don't know how to react beyond feeling betrayed.
What would you do?
My (M54) wife (57F) recently: 1) had cocktails at a bar with a guy without my knowledge; 2) had cocktails with the same guy at his house without telling me.
Am i a psycho if I try to get info from the bartenders? I am not getting much detail from my spouse...
I (M54) recently found out my wife (57F): 1) went to a cocktail bar with another man without telling me; 2) had cocktails at the same man's house without telling me.
My spouse is being sparse on details about these dates, for lack of any other word.
Am I crazy to ask the bartenders at the cocktail lounge if they remember seeing my wife with the other man? I want all the details and I am not getting them at home...