u/Otherwise_Minute_478

Obviously the first thought is "ask my partner." But I'm curious what advice you'd have.

I'm straight (m). My partner is bi (f)
We are in a long term relationship and we are committed to that but I know in the past she has had fantasies about being with a woman again.

Are there sex acts we could do together that would be more feminine that would help her feel grounded in that energy? I don't even know if that's a thing because attraction to a woman isn't about the sex act specifically, but I wonder if there's something she could do with me that might scratch the itch in a way too? (I wondered about pegging or fingering instead of penetration, etc?)

Hey all.

So I'm heterosexual M married to a bisexual F (she is good being married but has had sexual experiences w/ women and sort of has some fantasy still about it at times).

She likes being spanked/called a bad girl/hit. She's wanting to role play more and explore our sexual relationship. I am 100000% on board. But it's a new area for me. What are ideas of things I can do/say to meet her in the bad girl energy?

I'm more a switch, and probably lean sub slightly. I'm not super confident in charge because she'll tell me what she wants instead of letting me lead. She doesn't like teasing.

What are some ideas of how I can be more assertive/aggressive in a way she likes? Someone explained as her driving from the sub/bottom on her part b/c she tells me what she wants. I want to build a safe container that she can let me drive.

Hey all.

So I'm a pretty heterosexual M married to a bisexual F (she is good being married but has had sexual experiences w/ women and sort of has some fantasy still about it at times).

She likes being spanked/called a bad girl/hit. She's wanting to role play more and explore our sexual relationship. I am 100000% on board.

But I'm more a switch, and probably lean sub slightly. I'm not super confident being in charge because she'll tell me what she wants me to do to her instead of letting me lead. She doesn't like slow builds/teasing.

What are some ideas of how I can be more assertive/aggressive in a way she likes? I've offered a quiz that lets us both say what we like/are open to try and she refuses just to say "I'll tell you what I want." and I feel a bit shot down in being able to explore together.