u/OkamiiFang

18F looking for someone who can match my energy or try and fail adorably

New here and looking for a partner-in-crime who knows how to push all the right buttons. I’m 18 and bored with small talk—I want someone who can make me laugh and then make me blush a second later. If you’ve got the confidence to keep up with me, my DMs are officially open for you. 😈✨

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u/OkamiiFang — 19 hours ago

Everyone is telling me different things about this guy and now I’m confused

Hi, I’m 18F and I’ve been talking to this guy for a few weeks and I genuinely can’t tell if I should keep going or stop, he can be really sweet and attentive sometimes and makes me feel like he’s interested, but other times he disappears for a while or responds really inconsistently and then acts normal again like nothing happened, I’ve told a couple of friends and half of them say I should stop wasting my time because he’s clearly not serious, while the other half say I’m just overthinking because we’re not even official yet and this is normal at the beginning, I don’t have much experience with dating so I don’t really trust my judgment here and I keep going back and forth, if someone is genuinely interested in you, is inconsistency already a red flag or is it something you’re supposed to “wait out” early on?

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u/OkamiiFang — 20 hours ago

How do you actually make friends at 18 when you feel like you missed your chance?

Hi, I’m 18F and lately I’ve been feeling really stuck socially like everyone already has their groups and I’m just kind of on the outside trying to figure it out, I do want to meet new people and make real friends (I’m open to different age groups too), but I overthink everything and never know how to start conversations without feeling awkward or like I’m bothering people, most of my old friendships faded so it feels like I’m starting over and I don’t really know where people my age even go to connect anymore, how do you actually put yourself out there and make genuine friendships without it feeling forced or weird?

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u/OkamiiFang — 21 hours ago